erogenous area becomes charged by one of the most powerful nerves in the body, the pelvic nerve, which is connected to the bladder, uterus, urethra, female prostate (another name for the G-spot), PC muscle, and uterine muscles. Compared to the clitoris, its pleasure re- lease is not nearly as concentrated or as quick to peak. This spot’s erotic sensations simmer for some time when stimulated during sex play, lei- surely reaching a boiling point before suddenly “rocking” a woman’s en- tire reproductive system with muscle spasms that penetrate her core being, leading to an explosive orgasmic eruption.
Furthermore, having the G-spot massaged on a regular basis can in- crease genital blood flow when a woman experiences sexual arousal. This
can lead to new sensations, helping some women to climax who may have been unable to do so before. Many women describe their reaction to G- spot stimulation as a powerful flushing feeling that spreads throughout both the genitals and the entire body. When the G-spot is stimulated si- multaneously with the clitoris, words can’t do the experience justice, but it’s something like a can’t-catch-my-breath, paralyzed-in-paradise state of mind, a melting-into-my-lover-while-being-launched-into-the-cosmos ex- perience. As if these responses weren’t enough, G-spot stimulation is also one more way to attain multiple orgasms and to stay sexually charged over an extended period of time. Plus, it adds more natural lubrication to the whole affair, often resulting in female ejaculation for some women.
Second, the frenzy about the G-spot—the what-is-it, where-is-it, why- can’t-I-find-it, does-it-really-exist media mayhem—has turned this spot into a bit of a mystical deity. Worshipped for its unexplainable, breathtak- ing powers, the G-spot has caused lovers everywhere to be labeled sexual winners or losers for having found it or not. Tabloids have made locating the G-spot the ultimate crusade of lovemaking, so a certain attitude of “I’m normal,” “I’m sexual,” and/or “I’m an amazing lover” exists around finding it.
G-Spot Myths and Misconceptions
Myth: The G-spot doesn’t exist.
Many women can attest that the G-spot is a hot spot that exists. And many researchers, like Drs. Alice K. Ladas, Beverly Whipple, and John D. Perry, authors of the infamous The G Spot, consider the G-spot an actual, responsive part of a woman’s physiology—a type of female “prostate,” be- cause it consists of a group of sexually sensitive lubricating glands along the urethra, similar to the male’s prostate.
Myth: All women have an erogenous G-spot; some people just have trouble finding it.
Although every woman has a G-spot, it is not an erogenous zone for every woman. Some women simply don’t get anything out of having this area stimulated or don’t find its reactions anything special (the same is true of all of the hot spots). Many women and couples have been made to feel
sexually challenged and incompetent because they’ve been chasing a treasure chest that simply doesn’t hold gold for her. However, she (and her partner) is no less sexual or sexually accomplished because of this.
Myth: The G-spot produces instant magic-button reactions.
Many women and couples shoot themselves in the foot when trying to find the G-spot because they’re under the impression that, once hit, this erotic area will unleash the sexual forces of the universe, blowing her away into a state of sexual satiation she’s never known. The G-spot doesn’t pro- vide instant results. First, you need to take the time needed to get a woman sexually aroused, and then you need to explore the vaginal canal, again taking your time to stimulate the area. With time and patience, you may discover superpower sensations and feel like a superhero for having done so—just don’t expect yourself (or her) to react with the speed of Wonder Woman.
Myth: Every woman ejaculates fluid when aroused.
While many women experience
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