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Authors: Yvonne K. Fulbright
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vacation. You have a general road map of places you’d like to visit, but you are willing to get detoured and are open to new surprises that might pop up along the way. You may have such a good time in your travels that you never need to get to your destination, or you may end up arriving via ways you never imagined!
Communicate with your partner. Find out what feels good. Ask her if she’s aroused enough, if more pressure is needed, or if one motion feels better than another. Keep this light, sexy, and fun.
Women, explore on your own. Masturbating is a perfect opportunity to take your time exploring your genitals, your hot spots, what turns you on, and how to turn you on. Get to know your G-spot and have no fear in giving a sexual show-and-tell with your partner. It’s a com- plete win-win situation and conveys a sexual confidence that is hot.
How to Find the G-Spot
In trying to find the G-spot by herself, a woman can squat, though it is much more comfortable to sit and lean back onto a support. If with a part- ner, she can lie on her stomach, legs apart, with her hips slightly elevated,
perhaps on a pillow. Her lover can then use two or three fingers, palm down, to apply light, then firm, pressure downward onto the vagina’s ante- rior (front) wall (the one closer to the bed or floor). Lying on her back is also an option (and one that is commonly illustrated in sex books), with or without a pillow under the buttocks, with knees bent and legs spread; however, finding the G-spot may be much more difficult in this position. If attempting this position, the inserted fingers should be curved upward, like a fishhook, and pressure applied with a “come hither” motion.
Once the woman is aroused, insert two or three well-lubed fingers. Using more than one finger covers more ground and provides more stimulation. One finger can be used if she’s uncomfortable and “tight,” though this is often a good indication that she’s not aroused enough for vaginal stimulation. Consider taking things back a step with more kissing, sharing an erotic magazine, or running your hands all over her body while telling her how irresistibly sexy she is.
Feel along the front vaginal wall for a rough patch about two inches in from the vaginal opening (see Figure 3.1 on page 35). You’re look- ing for a swollen, puckering, wrinkly area, different from the sur- rounding soft tissue, ranging from the size of a small bean to that of a half dollar. Keep in mind that you’re likelier to find it in the shal- low versus deep end of the vagina. Don’t bypass it by trying to stick your whole finger in, as some people do, missing the spot entirely.
If you’re still having trouble finding the G-spot, with your other hand trace a line from the belly button to the top of the pubic bone, and with your palm or fingers gently press on the area where the pubic hairline starts. This stimulates the spot from the outside, so pressure can be applied from two angles. Shifting positions—for ex- ample, sitting up or leaning back even more—may also make it eas- ier to find.
Check in with your partner. How does everything feel to her? What does she need more of? Or less of?
Once you feel the rough patch of the G-spot, stroke the area, using firm, deep pressure. Continue to do so in a rhythmic circular or
up-down motion, making sure to stay steady and firm. The middle finger is especially good for providing steady, rhythmic pressure, whether accompanied by the index or ring finger.
Continue checking in with your partner to learn what type of stimu- lation feels best to her. Do you need to apply more pressure? Which motion does she like best?
Once you’re golden, gradually increase the rhythm, creating a lot of friction, which will increase the chances of having a Big O.
Simultaneously work other hot spots that have proven to be erotic for her, like her inner thighs or nipples, helping her to achieve more of a total-body reaction.
Finger
Communicate with your partner. Find out what feels good. Ask her if she’s aroused enough, if more pressure is needed, or if one motion feels better than another. Keep this light, sexy, and fun.
Women, explore on your own. Masturbating is a perfect opportunity to take your time exploring your genitals, your hot spots, what turns you on, and how to turn you on. Get to know your G-spot and have no fear in giving a sexual show-and-tell with your partner. It’s a com- plete win-win situation and conveys a sexual confidence that is hot.
How to Find the G-Spot
In trying to find the G-spot by herself, a woman can squat, though it is much more comfortable to sit and lean back onto a support. If with a part- ner, she can lie on her stomach, legs apart, with her hips slightly elevated,
perhaps on a pillow. Her lover can then use two or three fingers, palm down, to apply light, then firm, pressure downward onto the vagina’s ante- rior (front) wall (the one closer to the bed or floor). Lying on her back is also an option (and one that is commonly illustrated in sex books), with or without a pillow under the buttocks, with knees bent and legs spread; however, finding the G-spot may be much more difficult in this position. If attempting this position, the inserted fingers should be curved upward, like a fishhook, and pressure applied with a “come hither” motion.
Once the woman is aroused, insert two or three well-lubed fingers. Using more than one finger covers more ground and provides more stimulation. One finger can be used if she’s uncomfortable and “tight,” though this is often a good indication that she’s not aroused enough for vaginal stimulation. Consider taking things back a step with more kissing, sharing an erotic magazine, or running your hands all over her body while telling her how irresistibly sexy she is.
Feel along the front vaginal wall for a rough patch about two inches in from the vaginal opening (see Figure 3.1 on page 35). You’re look- ing for a swollen, puckering, wrinkly area, different from the sur- rounding soft tissue, ranging from the size of a small bean to that of a half dollar. Keep in mind that you’re likelier to find it in the shal- low versus deep end of the vagina. Don’t bypass it by trying to stick your whole finger in, as some people do, missing the spot entirely.
If you’re still having trouble finding the G-spot, with your other hand trace a line from the belly button to the top of the pubic bone, and with your palm or fingers gently press on the area where the pubic hairline starts. This stimulates the spot from the outside, so pressure can be applied from two angles. Shifting positions—for ex- ample, sitting up or leaning back even more—may also make it eas- ier to find.
Check in with your partner. How does everything feel to her? What does she need more of? Or less of?
Once you feel the rough patch of the G-spot, stroke the area, using firm, deep pressure. Continue to do so in a rhythmic circular or
up-down motion, making sure to stay steady and firm. The middle finger is especially good for providing steady, rhythmic pressure, whether accompanied by the index or ring finger.
Continue checking in with your partner to learn what type of stimu- lation feels best to her. Do you need to apply more pressure? Which motion does she like best?
Once you’re golden, gradually increase the rhythm, creating a lot of friction, which will increase the chances of having a Big O.
Simultaneously work other hot spots that have proven to be erotic for her, like her inner thighs or nipples, helping her to achieve more of a total-body reaction.
Finger
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