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female ejaculation, especially at climax during G-spot stimulation, not every woman does. What was once a faux pas reaction to sexual excitement has become the “latest” in sexual re- sponse, with many women now feeling pressured to be ejaculators by pro- ponents for the cause and partners alike. It’s wonderful that this natural bodily reaction is no longer being stigmatized and is actually being sup- ported, but we need to remember that there’s great beauty in the diverse reactions we humans have to sexual stimulation. As with all other experi- ences, a woman is no more or less sexual, no more or less feminine, be- cause she does or doesn’t ejaculate. Such erotic potential, however, is cer- tainly well worth exploring.
     
G-Spot Orgasm
     
spot orgasms, also referred to as vaginal, internal, or uterine or- gasms, are triggered by G-spot stimulation and involve contractions of the whole uterus, vagina, and pelvic region. They tend to feel deeper, trig- ger more of an emotional reaction than clitoral orgasms, and last longer. Many women find them more relaxing and satisfying, because they
produce warm waves of an “I’m-turning-to-putty” sensation that pump steadily throughout the body, making the woman feel like she’s sus- pended in a charged, uncontrollable, climactic high.

You may notice that the term “uterine orgasm” is used again in the fol- lowing chapter. This is because some experts hold that such orgasms are different from what is typically referred to as the G-spot orgasm. Rather than weigh in on the debate, I thought I’d keep both camps happy and let you decide what you want to call it.
Being able to stimulate the G-spot at the same time as the clitoris can lead to a “blended” orgasm, which involves both the pudendal and pelvic nerves, hence the stronger reaction that includes contractions of the PC muscle. Such an orgasm is often described as more sudden, more explosive, “deeper,” and longer lasting; in essence, it combines the reac- tions of the two types of orgasms. This is the result of internal uterine and pelvic (mostly in the outer third of the vagina) contractions. Women also generally experience feelings of deeper physical and emotional satisfac- tion with a blended orgasm. It should also be noted that apnea, a tempo- rary cessation of breathing, is not as common during a blended orgasm as with a vaginal orgasm.
Rules for G-Spot Play
Before attempting to stimulate the G-spot, make sure that the woman is sexually aroused, with the vagina well lubricated, so that the urethral sponge swells and becomes more noticeable to the touch. This will make it way easier to find.
If you’re using a diaphragm for birth control, reconsider. Dia- phragms have been known to interfere with G-spot stimulation.
Take your time finding and stimulating the G-spot, and do so on multiple occasions. This type of sexual pleasuring takes practice and perseverance, and you’ll get better every time you try. You may not arouse a reaction from this spot the first time or two, or you may not
do so effectively. As long as it’s a hot spot, however, you’ll hit the jackpot sooner or later.
Make sure your fingernails are well groomed. This is not an area to scratch! Long nails should ideally be covered by latex gloves.
Make sure the bladder is empty before stimulation. A woman may experience the urge to urinate when the G-spot is first stimulated but can rest assured that this is not the case if she’s hit the loo (bath- room) beforehand. After no more than ten seconds of massaging, the “need-to-pee” feeling is replaced by pure sexual pleasure.
Use lube! Getting things wet, or even wetter, down there will assist efforts.
Make sure you’re both relaxed and that this is not a goal-oriented sexpedition, even though it’s hard not to look at it that way. This is about having fun, feeling sexual, exploring the body, and finding out how to make it feel good. Plan your sexploration as though going on