the most intense pleasures that they can experience. The prostate gland is explored in detail in relation to the pleasures of G-spot stimulation and female emission in the chapter “ Navigating the Sacred River: Female Emissions .”
Beyond the G-spot, there are other highly sensitive zones located within the vaginal canal that are capable of providing deeply pleasurablesensations. The most noted is the A-spot, or AFE zone (anterior fornix erogenous zone), discovered by the Malaysian sex researcher Dr. Chua Chee Ann in the early 1990s. The spongy composition of this highly sensitive area lies deep inside the anterior wall of the vaginal canal, near the cervix. Known to be more extensive yet less defined than the G-spot, the A-spot is capable of provoking comparably vivid orgasmic responses. Sensitizing the A-spot requires deep penetration with the penis or the fingers. It responds to a softer touch than the G-spot and stimulates increased lubrication.
Applying pressure to the female perineum either directly or indirectly, through vaginal or anal penetration, stimulates what is known as the perineal sponge—the termination of the dense portion of the clitoral system known as the vestibular bulbs.
In males, the Cowper’s glands lie within the perineal wall. They emit the clear, slick, alkaline Cowper’s fluid, commonly called pre-cum. Pre-cum neutralizes the acidic environment of the urinary canal caused by the trace presence of urine to guarantee the sperms’ safe journey to the outside world. Some men emit Cowper’s fluid long before they actually ejaculate. In others, pre-cum indicates heightened levels of arousal and imminent ejaculation. Note that because pre-cum may contain sperm, withdrawal is an ineffective method of birth control.
Stroking the male perineum permits indirect contact with the prostate gland and the vas deferens, the duct that moves sperm and male hormones, including testosterone, from the testicles through the male apparatus by peristalsis, or smooth muscle wall contractions. Once the sperm exit the testicles, they make a stopover in the seminal sacs, or vesicles, where seminal fluid is added to the vital mixture, which is then pushed along with the help of the vas deferens until it reaches the prostate gland. During this final pit stop, prostate fluid is added to the recipe, and the sperm are finally readied for their mission. At the moment of ejaculation, semen exits theprostate gland and moves toward the urethral opening. When it has completely filled the urethra, this applies pressure to the prostate gland, provoking the fluttering sensation that most men recognize as imminent, and usually unavoidable, ejaculation. This signals the beginning of the sperm’s outward race. Learning to recognize these sensations and control the vas deferens before this occurs is crucial to the evolution of the Sexual Ceremony, when male partners are involved. We will examine this sexual skill in the chapter “ Riding the Orgasmic Wave: Male Ejaculation Control .”
During the Paradise Found Sexual Ceremony, the areas directly surrounding the sexual organs, male or female, are as important as the genitals themselves. The fine skin of the inner thighs is highly sensitive and capable of providing ecstatic sensations. For women, the pubic triangle, or the mons pubis, has soft, sensitive flesh that responds well to being massaged, stroked, and tickled. For men and women, the perineum, which creates a bridge between the genitals and the anus, responds well to deep strokes and decisive pressure.
Understanding your body and that of your lover’s allows you to create a map that will guide you both on your journeys to heightened sexual satisfaction. In addition, to know your genitals better is to take responsibility for them and the pleasure they can provide. This is fundamental to your capacity to accept, enhance, and share the
joie du sexe
that lies ahead.
CHAPTER 2
COAXING THE SEXUAL VIBRATION: ENHANCING THE
Beyond the G-spot, there are other highly sensitive zones located within the vaginal canal that are capable of providing deeply pleasurablesensations. The most noted is the A-spot, or AFE zone (anterior fornix erogenous zone), discovered by the Malaysian sex researcher Dr. Chua Chee Ann in the early 1990s. The spongy composition of this highly sensitive area lies deep inside the anterior wall of the vaginal canal, near the cervix. Known to be more extensive yet less defined than the G-spot, the A-spot is capable of provoking comparably vivid orgasmic responses. Sensitizing the A-spot requires deep penetration with the penis or the fingers. It responds to a softer touch than the G-spot and stimulates increased lubrication.
Applying pressure to the female perineum either directly or indirectly, through vaginal or anal penetration, stimulates what is known as the perineal sponge—the termination of the dense portion of the clitoral system known as the vestibular bulbs.
In males, the Cowper’s glands lie within the perineal wall. They emit the clear, slick, alkaline Cowper’s fluid, commonly called pre-cum. Pre-cum neutralizes the acidic environment of the urinary canal caused by the trace presence of urine to guarantee the sperms’ safe journey to the outside world. Some men emit Cowper’s fluid long before they actually ejaculate. In others, pre-cum indicates heightened levels of arousal and imminent ejaculation. Note that because pre-cum may contain sperm, withdrawal is an ineffective method of birth control.
Stroking the male perineum permits indirect contact with the prostate gland and the vas deferens, the duct that moves sperm and male hormones, including testosterone, from the testicles through the male apparatus by peristalsis, or smooth muscle wall contractions. Once the sperm exit the testicles, they make a stopover in the seminal sacs, or vesicles, where seminal fluid is added to the vital mixture, which is then pushed along with the help of the vas deferens until it reaches the prostate gland. During this final pit stop, prostate fluid is added to the recipe, and the sperm are finally readied for their mission. At the moment of ejaculation, semen exits theprostate gland and moves toward the urethral opening. When it has completely filled the urethra, this applies pressure to the prostate gland, provoking the fluttering sensation that most men recognize as imminent, and usually unavoidable, ejaculation. This signals the beginning of the sperm’s outward race. Learning to recognize these sensations and control the vas deferens before this occurs is crucial to the evolution of the Sexual Ceremony, when male partners are involved. We will examine this sexual skill in the chapter “ Riding the Orgasmic Wave: Male Ejaculation Control .”
During the Paradise Found Sexual Ceremony, the areas directly surrounding the sexual organs, male or female, are as important as the genitals themselves. The fine skin of the inner thighs is highly sensitive and capable of providing ecstatic sensations. For women, the pubic triangle, or the mons pubis, has soft, sensitive flesh that responds well to being massaged, stroked, and tickled. For men and women, the perineum, which creates a bridge between the genitals and the anus, responds well to deep strokes and decisive pressure.
Understanding your body and that of your lover’s allows you to create a map that will guide you both on your journeys to heightened sexual satisfaction. In addition, to know your genitals better is to take responsibility for them and the pleasure they can provide. This is fundamental to your capacity to accept, enhance, and share the
joie du sexe
that lies ahead.
CHAPTER 2
COAXING THE SEXUAL VIBRATION: ENHANCING THE
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