level, which their socialization
cannot
change. Plus,
how
they want to be cared for is quite different from what is commonly believed.
Social forces may have changed what women believe they are attracted to so much that they even list traits they are not bornto be attracted to and do not actually respond to, which is one of several reasons why it is never a good idea to follow females’ advice.
Female Advice
To ask for and follow a female’s advice may seem like a good idea if your experience with dating or even talking to women is limited, but it is not. If you elicit female advice, you will end up with guidance that is useless at best and counterproductive at worst, making you more and more confused and frustrated.
Females naturally believe themselves to be experts solely on the merit of being females, and they have plenty of advice to give to anyone who asks despite the obvious fact that they have
never
approached, seduced, and made love to a woman as a male. Besides that, however, there are several other reasons why asking your female friends for help, including your mother, is not such a good idea.
First, females are conditioned to control their sexuality, and they are raised to believe that if they do not, then they are bad, easy, loose, cheap, and naughty sluts that everyone will look down upon. That kind of social pressure makes them officially claim certain things that might not be true. The best approach to get girls is to understand that women actually are easy while at the same time never letting them feel so.
Second, females are not consciously aware of everything that they are attracted to in males because their actual list of necessary qualities and the automatic process of being turned on is nonconscious. To complicate things further, the things they are attracted to are not as obvious as mere physical looks either — things like a certain attitude and specific behaviors, which are much harder to describe even if they are aware of them. However, women mightstill think that they know what they truly want, and they will be very happy to help and eager to give you their opinion if you ask them, usually in a very certain and convincing way. When pressed for answers, they tend to give universal responses, such as claiming to want a male who is funny, tall, and nice, yet they keep dating males who are not (something that you have probably seen with your own eyes).
Third, females tend not to know how they were seduced if they have ever experienced it or even that it is an underlying process that can be repeated. Even if they do remember and can identify the process, whatever they describe will still be from their own perspective and not the same as the male who did it would describe it. Considering the fact that so few males are good at getting the girls they want on a consistent basis, even if a female knew a male’s exact strategy, assuming he had one, it would probably not work with most other women.
Fourth, how females imagine that they will react to a male’s approach and how they actually do react can be completely different. That is why girls will not give you an
accurate
answer if you ask them whether a specific approach will work or not, but they will still give you
an
answer.
Finally, females tend to give males advice that only works for females, such as telling them to take their time, let love come to them, that they will meet someone when they least expect it, and it will “just happen.” But the only reason those things work for
females
is that they rely on males taking action. If you are not getting girls at all, acting even more like one is not going to help you; it will only make things worse.
It does not matter that female advice is given with the best of intentions. The road to hell is paved with good intentions. Do yourself a favor and avoid it, no matter how sane and logical theadvice may seem. Chances are that you have listened to such advice in the past, and here you are still
cannot
change. Plus,
how
they want to be cared for is quite different from what is commonly believed.
Social forces may have changed what women believe they are attracted to so much that they even list traits they are not bornto be attracted to and do not actually respond to, which is one of several reasons why it is never a good idea to follow females’ advice.
Female Advice
To ask for and follow a female’s advice may seem like a good idea if your experience with dating or even talking to women is limited, but it is not. If you elicit female advice, you will end up with guidance that is useless at best and counterproductive at worst, making you more and more confused and frustrated.
Females naturally believe themselves to be experts solely on the merit of being females, and they have plenty of advice to give to anyone who asks despite the obvious fact that they have
never
approached, seduced, and made love to a woman as a male. Besides that, however, there are several other reasons why asking your female friends for help, including your mother, is not such a good idea.
First, females are conditioned to control their sexuality, and they are raised to believe that if they do not, then they are bad, easy, loose, cheap, and naughty sluts that everyone will look down upon. That kind of social pressure makes them officially claim certain things that might not be true. The best approach to get girls is to understand that women actually are easy while at the same time never letting them feel so.
Second, females are not consciously aware of everything that they are attracted to in males because their actual list of necessary qualities and the automatic process of being turned on is nonconscious. To complicate things further, the things they are attracted to are not as obvious as mere physical looks either — things like a certain attitude and specific behaviors, which are much harder to describe even if they are aware of them. However, women mightstill think that they know what they truly want, and they will be very happy to help and eager to give you their opinion if you ask them, usually in a very certain and convincing way. When pressed for answers, they tend to give universal responses, such as claiming to want a male who is funny, tall, and nice, yet they keep dating males who are not (something that you have probably seen with your own eyes).
Third, females tend not to know how they were seduced if they have ever experienced it or even that it is an underlying process that can be repeated. Even if they do remember and can identify the process, whatever they describe will still be from their own perspective and not the same as the male who did it would describe it. Considering the fact that so few males are good at getting the girls they want on a consistent basis, even if a female knew a male’s exact strategy, assuming he had one, it would probably not work with most other women.
Fourth, how females imagine that they will react to a male’s approach and how they actually do react can be completely different. That is why girls will not give you an
accurate
answer if you ask them whether a specific approach will work or not, but they will still give you
an
answer.
Finally, females tend to give males advice that only works for females, such as telling them to take their time, let love come to them, that they will meet someone when they least expect it, and it will “just happen.” But the only reason those things work for
females
is that they rely on males taking action. If you are not getting girls at all, acting even more like one is not going to help you; it will only make things worse.
It does not matter that female advice is given with the best of intentions. The road to hell is paved with good intentions. Do yourself a favor and avoid it, no matter how sane and logical theadvice may seem. Chances are that you have listened to such advice in the past, and here you are still
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