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literally thousands of things you can say to him that will get his motor running. You can use text messages as well. Or call him and leave a voice mail. Use your sexiest, softest voice to tell him what you want him to do to you when he gets home from work (or when you do). He will think about that for hours and definitely during his commute home.
Here is a little tip for you women. I know how it is, you drop hints all the time, but they just never seem to get the message. WE LIKE ROMANCE! So make him a list of things he can do that will make you feel like he cares about you. Romantic things. Do you like getting balloon bouquets while you are at work? Would you prefer to have flowers delivered or would you prefer that he deliver them himself. Want to be invited out to the movies? Or maybe dinner? How about both? Whatever it is that you like, put it on the list. Even if it is just a full body massage every night. Then it is on him to do something romantic every week or risk losing an opportunity to have nice orgasm. As a KeyHolder, you hold so much power over him when it comes to his sexual release, it is not even funny.
I know this sounds a great deal like a female led relationship, but it really doesn't have to be. You may have only agreed to “hold the keys” to his chastity device, but with that comes immense power. Let's step back for a moment and discuss what it really means to be a KeyHolder.
The question you should ask yourself is, “What does he really want?” Unless you are really lucky, he won't tell you. Not because he is embarrassed, or feels humiliated, or because he thinks you should know. The reason is, he doesn't know himself. But I do. And I will be happy to explain it to you.
Most men who want their wives to be their KeyHolder, don't want what they “pretend” to want. Okay, let's look at some of the captioned chastity photos out there. They explain it very well. He wants you to tease him so that he will beg you for an orgasm. He wants you to deny him an orgasm, or at least ruin or stifle any orgasms you allow him to have. He wants you to be “mean” to him. That translates into two things. 1) Deny him an orgasm until you think he really can't take it any more; and 2) he wants you to make him do things that will humiliate him. I know how stupid that sounds, but it is the truth. He doesn't want to have orgasms, but he wants you to control when he can.
Let's face it, he could deny himself an orgasm any time, and for as long as he wants. But that doesn't give him the thrill of hearing his favorite woman tell him, “No!” He wants you to hold his orgasms for ransom. That is, make him do embarrassing things in order to gain your favor so you will dangle an orgasm (like the proverbial carrot) in front of him. He doesn't want to never ejaculate again. He just wants you to pretend like that is a possibility.
Here is an example of something he might do. He might act like he doesn't want to perform fellatio on an another man, but deep down inside, he may really want you to make it happen, or at least make him think it might happen. On the other hand, he may hint and hint that you should bring in another man and make him watch while you and this “bull” have wild sex together. The truth may be that he could not handle it and he really just wants you to taunt him with the possibility. But then, again, who knows, maybe he secretly wants that. Men are hard to read when it comes to certain activities. You have to watch their reactions to things very carefully. And if all else fails, have a serious talk with him about it.
Don't believe me? Try this little experiment. Ask him if he would enjoy dressing up as woman. If he says, “No,” then send him to a boutique and have him purchase a pair of panties just for himself. If he does it, he secretly wants you to make him wear them. Putting him a dress is just few short steps away. Granted, cross dressing is a fairly common fantasy that men have. So he may
Here is a little tip for you women. I know how it is, you drop hints all the time, but they just never seem to get the message. WE LIKE ROMANCE! So make him a list of things he can do that will make you feel like he cares about you. Romantic things. Do you like getting balloon bouquets while you are at work? Would you prefer to have flowers delivered or would you prefer that he deliver them himself. Want to be invited out to the movies? Or maybe dinner? How about both? Whatever it is that you like, put it on the list. Even if it is just a full body massage every night. Then it is on him to do something romantic every week or risk losing an opportunity to have nice orgasm. As a KeyHolder, you hold so much power over him when it comes to his sexual release, it is not even funny.
I know this sounds a great deal like a female led relationship, but it really doesn't have to be. You may have only agreed to “hold the keys” to his chastity device, but with that comes immense power. Let's step back for a moment and discuss what it really means to be a KeyHolder.
The question you should ask yourself is, “What does he really want?” Unless you are really lucky, he won't tell you. Not because he is embarrassed, or feels humiliated, or because he thinks you should know. The reason is, he doesn't know himself. But I do. And I will be happy to explain it to you.
Most men who want their wives to be their KeyHolder, don't want what they “pretend” to want. Okay, let's look at some of the captioned chastity photos out there. They explain it very well. He wants you to tease him so that he will beg you for an orgasm. He wants you to deny him an orgasm, or at least ruin or stifle any orgasms you allow him to have. He wants you to be “mean” to him. That translates into two things. 1) Deny him an orgasm until you think he really can't take it any more; and 2) he wants you to make him do things that will humiliate him. I know how stupid that sounds, but it is the truth. He doesn't want to have orgasms, but he wants you to control when he can.
Let's face it, he could deny himself an orgasm any time, and for as long as he wants. But that doesn't give him the thrill of hearing his favorite woman tell him, “No!” He wants you to hold his orgasms for ransom. That is, make him do embarrassing things in order to gain your favor so you will dangle an orgasm (like the proverbial carrot) in front of him. He doesn't want to never ejaculate again. He just wants you to pretend like that is a possibility.
Here is an example of something he might do. He might act like he doesn't want to perform fellatio on an another man, but deep down inside, he may really want you to make it happen, or at least make him think it might happen. On the other hand, he may hint and hint that you should bring in another man and make him watch while you and this “bull” have wild sex together. The truth may be that he could not handle it and he really just wants you to taunt him with the possibility. But then, again, who knows, maybe he secretly wants that. Men are hard to read when it comes to certain activities. You have to watch their reactions to things very carefully. And if all else fails, have a serious talk with him about it.
Don't believe me? Try this little experiment. Ask him if he would enjoy dressing up as woman. If he says, “No,” then send him to a boutique and have him purchase a pair of panties just for himself. If he does it, he secretly wants you to make him wear them. Putting him a dress is just few short steps away. Granted, cross dressing is a fairly common fantasy that men have. So he may
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