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masturbate. He can, however, get aroused. And that is what your goal should be, to keep him aroused as much of the time as possible.
Bearing that in mind, you need to do a little research. Some of the research can actually be assigned to your partner while some you will be doing yourself. You need to locate some of the adult video websites. There are a number of them out there and a search, using your favorite search engine will bring up a number from which to choose. Most of these websites list their videos with a viewer rating and the length of each video. Many of them are free to use.
Your research is has two purposes: 1) To find some adult video websites that you and your partner can use and; 2) To discover what kinds of things can be used to arouse your partner. In order to accomplish this second part you need to assign tasks. These tasks could be that he watch a specific video to see if, or how much, he is turned on by the subject matter. Or you can assign the task of having your partner find some videos that he likes.
I strongly suggest that you use the websites own search function to locate videos of a specific type. It may be “ruined orgasms” or “tease & denial” or anything that you can think of that might fill your needs. For example, let us suppose you want to see how your partner would react to forced bi-sexuality. You would look for a number of videos, at least five minutes in length, for your partner to watch. Then you tell him to send you an email explaining how the video effected him. Was he turned on by what he saw? Did he get physically aroused? Was it because of the people in the video or because of the subject matter? These are questions you need answered.
You can use the information to determine a good course of action in your tease and denial sessions. That is, do you want to use it to help turn him on during a tease session or maybe to guide his own fantasies in that particular direction? If so, you might say things like, “How would you like it if I made you do something like that guy in the video was forced to do?” His answer, whether positive or not, can give you an idea or two about how to tease him with it.
Maybe you have him watch a ten minute video about a man being teased while dressed as a woman. If it aroused your partner sufficiently, you can say things to him such as, “I would love to dress you up like that guy and tease you the way his Mistress did.” Or maybe you would say, “I have been thinking about dressing you up like a woman and take you out to dinner.” Just your comments alone, can be very arousing to him. It all depends on what aspect of the video turned him on. By assigning him specific videos (or a specific subject) to watch, you can learn so much about what turns him on and what you can use as a humiliation, either verbal or physical.
I have actually had men tell me that they didn't like watching a bunch of men having orgasms in a video. Yet, after watching a 60 minute video of nothing but that, they report back that they were aroused during the entire video because they, themselves, could not do what they were watching. Sometimes a certain video's subject matter may not arouse him. That is, until you order him to watch it and report on it. Just the mere fact that you made him watch it, could be enough to make it exciting.
Remember, you don't have to actually do the things in the videos. That is to say, just because he was aroused by forced bi-sexual activity, by no means requires you to engage in such activities. What you want to do is find ways of teasing him using the information you gather from this research. Using this information you can say things during a tease session (especially when he is blindfolded) that will arouse him more than just your touch.
If, for example, he was turned on by watching two women teasing a man at the same time, you can say things such as, “I'll bet you would love it if I brought so-and-so over to help me tease you.”
Bearing that in mind, you need to do a little research. Some of the research can actually be assigned to your partner while some you will be doing yourself. You need to locate some of the adult video websites. There are a number of them out there and a search, using your favorite search engine will bring up a number from which to choose. Most of these websites list their videos with a viewer rating and the length of each video. Many of them are free to use.
Your research is has two purposes: 1) To find some adult video websites that you and your partner can use and; 2) To discover what kinds of things can be used to arouse your partner. In order to accomplish this second part you need to assign tasks. These tasks could be that he watch a specific video to see if, or how much, he is turned on by the subject matter. Or you can assign the task of having your partner find some videos that he likes.
I strongly suggest that you use the websites own search function to locate videos of a specific type. It may be “ruined orgasms” or “tease & denial” or anything that you can think of that might fill your needs. For example, let us suppose you want to see how your partner would react to forced bi-sexuality. You would look for a number of videos, at least five minutes in length, for your partner to watch. Then you tell him to send you an email explaining how the video effected him. Was he turned on by what he saw? Did he get physically aroused? Was it because of the people in the video or because of the subject matter? These are questions you need answered.
You can use the information to determine a good course of action in your tease and denial sessions. That is, do you want to use it to help turn him on during a tease session or maybe to guide his own fantasies in that particular direction? If so, you might say things like, “How would you like it if I made you do something like that guy in the video was forced to do?” His answer, whether positive or not, can give you an idea or two about how to tease him with it.
Maybe you have him watch a ten minute video about a man being teased while dressed as a woman. If it aroused your partner sufficiently, you can say things to him such as, “I would love to dress you up like that guy and tease you the way his Mistress did.” Or maybe you would say, “I have been thinking about dressing you up like a woman and take you out to dinner.” Just your comments alone, can be very arousing to him. It all depends on what aspect of the video turned him on. By assigning him specific videos (or a specific subject) to watch, you can learn so much about what turns him on and what you can use as a humiliation, either verbal or physical.
I have actually had men tell me that they didn't like watching a bunch of men having orgasms in a video. Yet, after watching a 60 minute video of nothing but that, they report back that they were aroused during the entire video because they, themselves, could not do what they were watching. Sometimes a certain video's subject matter may not arouse him. That is, until you order him to watch it and report on it. Just the mere fact that you made him watch it, could be enough to make it exciting.
Remember, you don't have to actually do the things in the videos. That is to say, just because he was aroused by forced bi-sexual activity, by no means requires you to engage in such activities. What you want to do is find ways of teasing him using the information you gather from this research. Using this information you can say things during a tease session (especially when he is blindfolded) that will arouse him more than just your touch.
If, for example, he was turned on by watching two women teasing a man at the same time, you can say things such as, “I'll bet you would love it if I brought so-and-so over to help me tease you.”
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