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moving your head closer or farther from the bed.
Topside. Good G-spot contact here. The man is on his back while you straddle and face him. Instead of going at it like a man would (bouncing up and down), slide in a circular motion as well as and back and forth, towards his feet. This makes anatomical sense, and you may very well enjoy it because by sliding around, you’ll be stimulating the clitoris as you go. Bouncing ignores this epicenter of nerves. By angling your body towards his feet, the penis can push into the G-spot.
What the G-Spot Can Do
So you’ve found the G-spot, and you enjoy the sensation of it. Many women who have orgasms with some G-spot stimulation find them to be deeper, more intense, and more satisfying. But that is just the beginning of hot G-spot action. Consider the wet spot. That circle of dampness one often finds after sex, which seems just too big to blame solely on the man’s ejaculate (only a tablespoon or two of fluid at most).
So, whence the wetness? As you know, the general topic of sex goes largely undiscussed, and certainly no one wants to chat casually about excessive bodily fluids. I know there are hundreds and possibly hundreds of thousands of women who believe that, at some point, they have wet the bed. Some are convinced they’ve peed in it, others just know they’ve flooded it, and still others marvel at that occasional wet spot, wondering how it got there. No one, of course, wants to sleep on it. Generally speaking, the wet spot is considered a bad thing. It’s spoken of shamefully, as in, “look what I did,” instead of the accomplishment it is, as in, “look what I can do.”
THE FLUID IS THE RELEASE OF G-SPOT–TRIGGERED FEMALE EJACULATION.
I don’t love the term “female ejaculation.” I find it clinical and unsexy. The only slang I’ve heard—“gush” or “squirt”—is worse. Unbeknownst to most people, women can ejaculate a fluid like men do. So similar, in fact, that the liquid is called “prostatic fluid.” The female ejaculate comes from near the urethra, from the paraurethral glands on either side of the urethral opening and in the urethral sponge (or G-spot), but it is not urine, nor does it contain sperm (obviously). It is extremely similar to sugary mix that is produced by the prostate in men (which the sperm then joins before coming out as semen). According to Dr. Beverly Whipple and Dr. John D. Perry, authors of The G-Spot , about 40 percent of women experience female ejaculation and most women have the potential to ejaculate (my guess is that many are losing these orgasms to the fear of peeing). Since female anatomy education in school is confined to the ovaries, fallopian tubes, and uterus, many women (you’d be surprised) don’t know where their urethral opening is in relation to the vaginal or anal openings, let alone the glands around the urethral opening.
Salon Secrets
I thought women peed from the clitoris the way men pee from their penis. After the Safina Salon I went to, I went home and got out a mirror, and I still couldn’t really see the urethral opening. So I held up the mirror while I peed to see where it came from. I felt really silly, but I didn’t want to stay so clueless. I’m 39 years old, and I didn’t know how my body pees and holding up the mirror I could clearly see it was like half an inch from the clitoris.
Some women experience the female ejaculation as a series of spurts. For others the ejaculate fluid just leaks out at some point during sex without much fanfare. Many have experienced both. The quantity varies also from one woman to the next and from one romp to the next. It is possible to soak most of the bed, or it can be not much more than the usual amount of lubrication one always makes. It can happen quickly, or it can take over an hour of direct G-spot stimulation to occur. However, the important thing to realize about female ejaculation is that it’s completely normal—and desirable. Women who’ve
Topside. Good G-spot contact here. The man is on his back while you straddle and face him. Instead of going at it like a man would (bouncing up and down), slide in a circular motion as well as and back and forth, towards his feet. This makes anatomical sense, and you may very well enjoy it because by sliding around, you’ll be stimulating the clitoris as you go. Bouncing ignores this epicenter of nerves. By angling your body towards his feet, the penis can push into the G-spot.
What the G-Spot Can Do
So you’ve found the G-spot, and you enjoy the sensation of it. Many women who have orgasms with some G-spot stimulation find them to be deeper, more intense, and more satisfying. But that is just the beginning of hot G-spot action. Consider the wet spot. That circle of dampness one often finds after sex, which seems just too big to blame solely on the man’s ejaculate (only a tablespoon or two of fluid at most).
So, whence the wetness? As you know, the general topic of sex goes largely undiscussed, and certainly no one wants to chat casually about excessive bodily fluids. I know there are hundreds and possibly hundreds of thousands of women who believe that, at some point, they have wet the bed. Some are convinced they’ve peed in it, others just know they’ve flooded it, and still others marvel at that occasional wet spot, wondering how it got there. No one, of course, wants to sleep on it. Generally speaking, the wet spot is considered a bad thing. It’s spoken of shamefully, as in, “look what I did,” instead of the accomplishment it is, as in, “look what I can do.”
THE FLUID IS THE RELEASE OF G-SPOT–TRIGGERED FEMALE EJACULATION.
I don’t love the term “female ejaculation.” I find it clinical and unsexy. The only slang I’ve heard—“gush” or “squirt”—is worse. Unbeknownst to most people, women can ejaculate a fluid like men do. So similar, in fact, that the liquid is called “prostatic fluid.” The female ejaculate comes from near the urethra, from the paraurethral glands on either side of the urethral opening and in the urethral sponge (or G-spot), but it is not urine, nor does it contain sperm (obviously). It is extremely similar to sugary mix that is produced by the prostate in men (which the sperm then joins before coming out as semen). According to Dr. Beverly Whipple and Dr. John D. Perry, authors of The G-Spot , about 40 percent of women experience female ejaculation and most women have the potential to ejaculate (my guess is that many are losing these orgasms to the fear of peeing). Since female anatomy education in school is confined to the ovaries, fallopian tubes, and uterus, many women (you’d be surprised) don’t know where their urethral opening is in relation to the vaginal or anal openings, let alone the glands around the urethral opening.
Salon Secrets
I thought women peed from the clitoris the way men pee from their penis. After the Safina Salon I went to, I went home and got out a mirror, and I still couldn’t really see the urethral opening. So I held up the mirror while I peed to see where it came from. I felt really silly, but I didn’t want to stay so clueless. I’m 39 years old, and I didn’t know how my body pees and holding up the mirror I could clearly see it was like half an inch from the clitoris.
Some women experience the female ejaculation as a series of spurts. For others the ejaculate fluid just leaks out at some point during sex without much fanfare. Many have experienced both. The quantity varies also from one woman to the next and from one romp to the next. It is possible to soak most of the bed, or it can be not much more than the usual amount of lubrication one always makes. It can happen quickly, or it can take over an hour of direct G-spot stimulation to occur. However, the important thing to realize about female ejaculation is that it’s completely normal—and desirable. Women who’ve
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