experienced it say it feels great. With all G-spot related activity, the best advice is to relax, explore, and do it for the sake of fun. Don’t think of yourself as inadequate if you find it and lose it or do or don’t have an ejaculation. The G-spot is merely one more avenue of pleasure to investigate. So do.
Salon Secrets
I’ve certainly produced a lot of fluid, but one night, my boyfriend and I had been having intercourse for a long time, and I was getting to the point of wanting to stop. And then, I felt this sensation building deep inside. I can’t say where exactly it came from, but I’d never felt it before. My vaginal muscles started to contract, but not in the way they usually do during orgasm. And then, I felt four distinct squirts of fluid jet out of me. Like I was pumping them out, but I had no control over it. I didn’t have my typical orgasm when it happened either, but the sensation was deeply satisfying, as if I had this stuff inside me and it needed to get out. My boyfriend was just as shocked as I was. We stopped and looked at the bed. There was a huge wet spot, as big as a dinner plate. I said that it had never happened to me before. He said it hadn’t happened for him with another woman either. Nor has it happened since for me. But I’m ever hopeful!
Important Dates in G-Spot History
1.8 million years ago Early woman evolves from apes, with all anatomical parts fully formed, including the G-spot.
1913 The Frigidity of the Female Sex is published in Berlin by Alfred Adler, Austrian psychiatrist and creator of the system of Individual Psychology; first to describe the “inferiority complex.”
1934 American psychoanalyst Edmund Bergler studied marriage and judged 70-80% of women are frigid – as defined by the inability to have a vaginal orgasm.
1950 Ernest Gräfenberg, M.D., says that Freud is wrong, that women are not frigid if they don’t orgasm during intercourse (a widely held belief at the time). He tests the theory that women have nerves on the anterior vaginal wall (somethingKinsey disagreed with). Gräfenberg’s tests showed, “ An erotic zone always could be demonstrated on the anterior wall of the vagina along the course of the urethra.” Hence, Gräfenberg “discovers” said spot, and it gets named after him.
1983 Beverly Whipple, Ph.D., et. al, write The G-Spot, a best-selling book that details the area and introduces “female ejaculation” to the masses.
1988 I meet John and find my G-spot. Didn’t know what it was, but liked it.
Late 1988 Lose John, and my G-spot. Missed the G-spot much more.
1995 Meet Paul, and rediscover my G-spot. Cling tightly to it, more tightly than to Paul.
O Joy
Chapter 4
Here’s a little riddle for you:
What can be learned well but not summoned at will? What happens in your muscles but starts in your mind? What always makes you feel wonderful but can both wake you up and put you to sleep?
Anyone who’s seen the movie When Harry Met Sally remembers the famous deli scene when Meg Ryan gives Billy Crystal an impromptu performance of faking an orgasm. I was amazed at the perfect crescendo of her simulated climax, and a little embarrassed too, squirming in my theater seat just as Billy Crystal was at the table. While watching that scene, I thought about the sound of an orgasm for the first time and realized that everyone must make pretty much the same noises. A universal sound of abandon had to be echoing in bedrooms all over the world, for real, or as in this case, as in an Oscar-caliber performance. And why, I wondered, was this such a surprise for me and for the millions of men who were shocked by that scene? Surely men had some idea that women could fake orgasms.
Orgasm Expertise
You can blink on purpose, but the involuntary reflex of blinking every ten seconds guarantees a continually lubricated eye. Orgasm, also an involuntary muscle contraction, is not a blink. Orgasms, for one, don’t just happen every ten seconds, nor are
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