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yanked on. Ball stretchers, cock and ball vises, ball stocks, ball separators, and combination cock ring/ball âtortureâ (CBT, or cock-and ball torture) devices can all be found at specialty S/M boutiques, especially ones that cater to gay men. These toys will bring out the Inquisitor in you, and ideally will
evoke delighted moans of pleasurable pain from him, but only experienced players should use them.
If intense sensations like clamps, spanking, whipping, paddling, and other types of pain sound like the ingredients for a hot date, follow these guidelines and suggestions:
⢠Start slowly, and always increase sensation slowly.
⢠Begin with light sensation. Use the toy to caress, knead, lightly slap, and spank.
⢠Speak in role, whisper dirty talk, or say things to excite your lover the entire time. Make it part of your dialogue to ask how they like it; this is also how you can tease out what they want next.
⢠Alternate different sensationsâsuch as fur, satin, heat, ice, hot wax, biting and scratchingâwith your spanking or whipping.
⢠Never strike the lower back, head, neck or face, or bony areas such as the spine or knees.
⢠Give your lover a hand job as you go along.
⢠In a 69 position, you can spank or penetrate him or her while they perform oral sex on you.
Chapter 5
Strap-Ons and Bend Over Boyfriend
H ave you ever wanted to turn the tables on your lover, strapping on a sexy black harness, fastening in a dildo to jut out from between your legs, just soâthen following through with everything your new dick implies? And what would that entail, exactly: strutting around in a pair of high heels, or going all the way and dressing extra butch in a tank top and work boots? Better yet, if you followed all these lines of thinking, how hot and bothered would you get while stroking your new erect appendage, rubbing it all over your loverâs face, and having them give you a blow jobâor more, when you take total control and penetrate them?
Sound hot? It is. Being on the receiving end (literally) of a strap-on is just as arousing in the, well, flesh. Whether itâs a power exchange fantasy, a gender-bending scenario, or just the blissful sensation of feeling your lover inside you, thereâs little that compares with strap-on sex.
Harnesses come in a variety of shapes, styles, and sizes, and can be tailored to fit virtually any fantasy scenario you and your
lover have in mind. Strap-ons are for women, men, and trans people of all genders and orientations who want a little (or a big) something extra in their pants. There are strap-ons made just for men, harnesses for female-to-male trans folks, strap-on rigs made for a variety of functions like double penetration, and much, much more. Unlike their depictions in most porn, strap-ons arenât just for long-fingernailed, fluffy-haired, fake lesbians.
As a sex act, straight couples playing with strap-ons has proven a very lucrative, popular, emerging (and exciting) area of sexual expression. For those toy companies savvy enough to understand whatâs at play here, that isâbecause the âbend over boyfriendâ phenomenon has befuddled the more traditional sex toy retailers and porn directors, and also sex advice authors and porn reviewers of all orientations. As noted sexologist Dr. Carol Queen said in the introduction to the how-to instructional video that coined the sex actâs namesake ( Bend Over Boyfriend ), âStraight couples are reinventing anal sex.â Because even if uptight porn directors and novelty manufacturers may not have the faintest idea why a couple buys a harness, itâs certain that theyâre doing it because itâs fun .
Wearing a strap-on, even if you donât do anything with it, is an encounter full of revelations and gives you a sense of sexual giddiness that must be felt to be understoodâin addition to the incredible arousal that usually
evoke delighted moans of pleasurable pain from him, but only experienced players should use them.
If intense sensations like clamps, spanking, whipping, paddling, and other types of pain sound like the ingredients for a hot date, follow these guidelines and suggestions:
⢠Start slowly, and always increase sensation slowly.
⢠Begin with light sensation. Use the toy to caress, knead, lightly slap, and spank.
⢠Speak in role, whisper dirty talk, or say things to excite your lover the entire time. Make it part of your dialogue to ask how they like it; this is also how you can tease out what they want next.
⢠Alternate different sensationsâsuch as fur, satin, heat, ice, hot wax, biting and scratchingâwith your spanking or whipping.
⢠Never strike the lower back, head, neck or face, or bony areas such as the spine or knees.
⢠Give your lover a hand job as you go along.
⢠In a 69 position, you can spank or penetrate him or her while they perform oral sex on you.
Chapter 5
Strap-Ons and Bend Over Boyfriend
H ave you ever wanted to turn the tables on your lover, strapping on a sexy black harness, fastening in a dildo to jut out from between your legs, just soâthen following through with everything your new dick implies? And what would that entail, exactly: strutting around in a pair of high heels, or going all the way and dressing extra butch in a tank top and work boots? Better yet, if you followed all these lines of thinking, how hot and bothered would you get while stroking your new erect appendage, rubbing it all over your loverâs face, and having them give you a blow jobâor more, when you take total control and penetrate them?
Sound hot? It is. Being on the receiving end (literally) of a strap-on is just as arousing in the, well, flesh. Whether itâs a power exchange fantasy, a gender-bending scenario, or just the blissful sensation of feeling your lover inside you, thereâs little that compares with strap-on sex.
Harnesses come in a variety of shapes, styles, and sizes, and can be tailored to fit virtually any fantasy scenario you and your
lover have in mind. Strap-ons are for women, men, and trans people of all genders and orientations who want a little (or a big) something extra in their pants. There are strap-ons made just for men, harnesses for female-to-male trans folks, strap-on rigs made for a variety of functions like double penetration, and much, much more. Unlike their depictions in most porn, strap-ons arenât just for long-fingernailed, fluffy-haired, fake lesbians.
As a sex act, straight couples playing with strap-ons has proven a very lucrative, popular, emerging (and exciting) area of sexual expression. For those toy companies savvy enough to understand whatâs at play here, that isâbecause the âbend over boyfriendâ phenomenon has befuddled the more traditional sex toy retailers and porn directors, and also sex advice authors and porn reviewers of all orientations. As noted sexologist Dr. Carol Queen said in the introduction to the how-to instructional video that coined the sex actâs namesake ( Bend Over Boyfriend ), âStraight couples are reinventing anal sex.â Because even if uptight porn directors and novelty manufacturers may not have the faintest idea why a couple buys a harness, itâs certain that theyâre doing it because itâs fun .
Wearing a strap-on, even if you donât do anything with it, is an encounter full of revelations and gives you a sense of sexual giddiness that must be felt to be understoodâin addition to the incredible arousal that usually
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