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heart-responsibility, to commitment in love, and yields his self-centeredness in his practice of intimacy.
In love, you don’t give yourself up as if you were weak, rather, you allow yourself to be submitted wholeheartedly to the process of love.
How Do I Attract a Strong Man?
Men tend to be weak in their emotional life. Your man may be stuck in his head, stuck in his projects, stuck in his purpose. His emotional life may be dry and empty. You are his source of radiance and delight. You are his source of wild energy. As his chosen woman, you are his most intimate source of the feminine force of the universe. This is your unique gift to him, if you choose to gift him with your feminine love.
On the other hand, women tend to be weaker in aligning their actions with their highest vision. They may allow their emotional state to over-influence the clarity and direction of their actions. If you feel closed, for instance, it’s often hard to open even though you know in your heart that love is better than withdrawal. Or, you may know in your heart that it’s time to change jobs, but still find it difficult to take the next step. The masculine is good at helping the feminine live its highest purpose. The source of this masculine energy of organization and direction may be your man or your own masculine energy.
If you are weak in your self-discipline, if you have difficulty deciding on and achieving your goals, then you need more masculine energy in your life. You can develop your own masculine energy by learning to set goals, following schedules, meeting deadlines and disciplining your daily activities.
You don’t have to balance yourself first. You can gift each other in a relationship, and by doing that, you achieve balance. You are balanced by him and he is balanced by you. For instance, his mental goal-orientation can be balanced by your intuitive sensitivity. Your wild energy and emotional flow can be balanced by his stability, discrimination and humor.
How do you attract an intelligent, strong, playful man? To attract full masculine energy you must be relaxed in your body as a woman, as the full feminine incarnation of the universe. You must trust that the feminine side of yourself is not stupid, inadequate or weak. When you fully honor your feminine, then you will attract a man who honors your feminine as you do. You will be able to come together and serve one another.
Of course, if you are naturally strong in your masculine energy, you may not want a man with a strong masculine force and a desire to cherish and care for you as his feminine source of love. Your self-discipline and organizational abilities may be fully developed already, and you may not want a man who enters your life with his masculine energy. It is up to you. You may prefer a man who gives you more feminine, nurturing, supportive love.
If you want a man who will gift you with strong masculine integrity, passion and humor, then relax in your feminine energy and you will attract him. If you want a man who will not interfere with your life as it is, who will not make lovingdemands of you so much as offer emotional support and acceptance, then animate your more controlling, directive, masculine energy. The man you attract will appreciate receiving your guidance and direction. Rather than penetrating your life with masculine love he is more likely to give you feminine, nurturing love with very little direction of his own.
The choice is up to you. Just remember that you always will attract a man who puts out energy reciprocal to that which you are putting out, masculine or feminine.
Who Gets to Make the Decisions, Him or Me?
Decisions about what to do are an “even deal” between people. But they are not an even deal between masculine energy and feminine energy. The feminine energy gets what it wants in love. The masculine energy gets what it wants in freedom. Your partner cannot be full in his masculine energy and also give up freedom for your
In love, you don’t give yourself up as if you were weak, rather, you allow yourself to be submitted wholeheartedly to the process of love.
How Do I Attract a Strong Man?
Men tend to be weak in their emotional life. Your man may be stuck in his head, stuck in his projects, stuck in his purpose. His emotional life may be dry and empty. You are his source of radiance and delight. You are his source of wild energy. As his chosen woman, you are his most intimate source of the feminine force of the universe. This is your unique gift to him, if you choose to gift him with your feminine love.
On the other hand, women tend to be weaker in aligning their actions with their highest vision. They may allow their emotional state to over-influence the clarity and direction of their actions. If you feel closed, for instance, it’s often hard to open even though you know in your heart that love is better than withdrawal. Or, you may know in your heart that it’s time to change jobs, but still find it difficult to take the next step. The masculine is good at helping the feminine live its highest purpose. The source of this masculine energy of organization and direction may be your man or your own masculine energy.
If you are weak in your self-discipline, if you have difficulty deciding on and achieving your goals, then you need more masculine energy in your life. You can develop your own masculine energy by learning to set goals, following schedules, meeting deadlines and disciplining your daily activities.
You don’t have to balance yourself first. You can gift each other in a relationship, and by doing that, you achieve balance. You are balanced by him and he is balanced by you. For instance, his mental goal-orientation can be balanced by your intuitive sensitivity. Your wild energy and emotional flow can be balanced by his stability, discrimination and humor.
How do you attract an intelligent, strong, playful man? To attract full masculine energy you must be relaxed in your body as a woman, as the full feminine incarnation of the universe. You must trust that the feminine side of yourself is not stupid, inadequate or weak. When you fully honor your feminine, then you will attract a man who honors your feminine as you do. You will be able to come together and serve one another.
Of course, if you are naturally strong in your masculine energy, you may not want a man with a strong masculine force and a desire to cherish and care for you as his feminine source of love. Your self-discipline and organizational abilities may be fully developed already, and you may not want a man who enters your life with his masculine energy. It is up to you. You may prefer a man who gives you more feminine, nurturing, supportive love.
If you want a man who will gift you with strong masculine integrity, passion and humor, then relax in your feminine energy and you will attract him. If you want a man who will not interfere with your life as it is, who will not make lovingdemands of you so much as offer emotional support and acceptance, then animate your more controlling, directive, masculine energy. The man you attract will appreciate receiving your guidance and direction. Rather than penetrating your life with masculine love he is more likely to give you feminine, nurturing love with very little direction of his own.
The choice is up to you. Just remember that you always will attract a man who puts out energy reciprocal to that which you are putting out, masculine or feminine.
Who Gets to Make the Decisions, Him or Me?
Decisions about what to do are an “even deal” between people. But they are not an even deal between masculine energy and feminine energy. The feminine energy gets what it wants in love. The masculine energy gets what it wants in freedom. Your partner cannot be full in his masculine energy and also give up freedom for your
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