or biological constraint on the number of orgasms a woman can have.
But most women have only one orgasm when they masturbate, and certainly all the men she has been with have had only one orgasm. So most women never really think to go beyond that.
In fact, many women have a self limiting belief that they can have only one orgasm.
But actually, every woman is capable of multiple orgasms. And interestingly, each orgasm a woman has is actually more powerful than the one before.
In order to give a woman her first multiple orgasm, you must distract her from her own self limiting beliefs, by giving her a different task to concentrate on. Your goal, and your little secret, is to give her multiple orgasms.
This is assuming that your woman is vaginally orgasmic. If she is not yet vaginally orgasmic, go work on that, and then come back to this task.
To make her multi-orgasmic, you will first give her a clitoral orgasm and then a vaginal orgasm.
The clitoral orgasm goes first because after a woman has an orgasm, her clitoris is usually so sensitive that it cannot be touched. That is the same for the tip of your penis. And that is no surprise, knowing that the clitoris and penis are corresponding tissue between the two genders.
The vaginal orgasm goes second because the vagina does not have the same over sensitive issue that the clitoris has.
Set up the entire evening as one that is devoted to taking the time for pleasuring her in ways that you choose to do. Explain to her that you simply want to pleasure her in various ways, as nothing more than
your expression of savoring the beautiful feminine woman that you adore about her.
So, first give her a clitoral orgasm, using whatever technique she happens to most prefer.
After she experiences her clitoral orgasm, she is going to want you to make love to her, even though she does not expect to have another orgasm. Instead, simply remind her that you simply want to pleasure her in various ways, as nothing more than your expression of savoring the beautiful feminine woman that you adore about her.
Now use the techniques from the chapter “Give Her Her First Orgasm” to now give her a deep spot induced vaginal orgasm. Distract her from her own self limiting beliefs with the task of surrendering to you, and bring her to your goal of her having another orgasm.
Once she experiences a second orgasm in one evening, her own self limiting belief is shattered, and it will be very easy and natural to give her multiple orgasms for then on.
Female Ejaculation
As I discussed earlier, there are many similarities between male and female sexual anatomy. Some of which make no contribution to procreation. One example is that men have nipples. Another is that women ejaculate.
Just as the male has a prostate gland, the female has paraurethral Skene glands.
Embryologically, the urethral glands of the female are homologous to the male prostatic glands (just like the ovaries and the testes are from the same embryonic tissue.) These paraurethral glands (on either side of the urethra) are known as the Skene glands (Alexander Skene, MD, 1880.) The Skene glands make up the G spot on the front of the vagina.
Diagram of female bladder and Skene glands
During sexual arousal, the Skene glands secrete a clear fluid, much like water, having a chemical makeup similar to the transport medium in male ejaculate. There is no urine in female ejaculate.
During sexual arousal, a sphincter muscle where the bladder attaches to the urethra tightens up so that no urine can leave the bladder.
At the time of orgasm, the Skene glands expel the ejaculate down the urethra and out of the body, and thus female ejaculation, simply a leftover from the similarities between men and women.
But for most women, just before an orgasm, the woman feels the urge to urinate. This is actually the female ejaculate building up in the Skene glands. But most women think they are going to pee. Thus, they tighten up their PC muscle, just
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