and slow.
Sound as loud as you can on the exhale.
Movement by tightening and relaxing the PC muscle while moving the pelvis.
Presence through total focus on the sensations you’re experiencing.
4. RECEIVER BREATHES
Now, the giver stroke the receiver’s entire body more and more sensuously. Vary your strokes, pressure, and speed. Add patting, tapping, and even vibrating. Follow your beloved’s cues.
5. OIL
If the receiver chooses, warm some massage oil in your hands, and anoint their body, one section at a time. Slip and slide with long strokes for maximum turn-on. Be sure to brush by the genitals now and then.
6. CLOSING
Bring touch to a close. Hug, hold, or lie next to each other. Feel the receiver’s subtle excitement and energy. Talk about how the experience was for each of you.
7. SWITCH
Switch roles right away, or take a little break for the receiver to assimilate the new sensations.
KAMA SUTRA EMBRACES
THE INDIAN LOVE GUIDE
The Kama Sutra details many preliminaries to sexual union under the heading of “embraces.” From that 2,000-year old text on the sexual arts, we learn how the ancient Indians developed scratching, biting, kissing, and “the giving of blows” into a high art. (They weren’t talking about blow jobs at this point.)
The Kama Sutra cautions that people of good taste don’t make these embraces violent. We don’t find it particularly erotic to inflict severe pain and leave marks on your beloved’s body. As we said before, some lovers are so armored against sensation that they need the strongest possible stimulation to get turned on.
In contrast, our emphasis here is to learn to use this wide range of embraces subtly to increase your beloved’s sensitivity. Although not every one of these strokes is going to contribute to your personal delight or even lead you to ejaculation, we want to review some of the best for you to experiment with. You never know which ones will work best for you until you try them.
KAMA SUTRA KISSING
The Kama Sutra turned kissing into a glorious art form. It gave instructions about the different varieties from pecking to vibrant to rubbing in different positions and life situations. Try dry and wet, hard and soft, licking and sucking, long and short, nibbling and holding. You have many more options to play with than tongue fencing and deep throating.
Both the body and lips were fair game in the Kama Sutra. The Indian love guide describes “the kissing game,” which is alternating the giving and receiving for maximum excitement. This makes it eminently clear that kissing isn’t just for the lips!
KAMA SUTRA LICKING
Licking is juicy fun. Try many of the same variations mentioned in kissing, and try them all over. Some women especially like it very sloppy wet.
Slow is the key to ecstasy through licking. Stop if you get tired, and keep going if it turns you on. You’ll have your partner moaning and groaning with pleasure, and getting very wet or hard as well.
KAMA SUTRA SUCKING AND SQUEEZING
Remember how you liked getting hickeys when you were a teenager? The edge of pain can be very arousing for many. Beware, though, that you may feel very naughty!
Think also about squeezing, which is something you can do not just with your lips, but with your fingers, your hands, your arms, your legs, and your vagina.
For all its variety of kissing techniques, licking, and sucking all over the body, the Kama Sutra wasn’t very big on oral sex with the genitals. If you are, however, by all means, experiment.
KAMA SUTRA BITING
Biting can be light, medium, strong, or anywhere in between. Biting lips can be very erotic. The Kama Sutra instructed lovers to bite hard enough to leave marks all around the breast in an even pattern. These souvenirs were considered a mark of true love and an esteemed practice. We don’t advocate this, but whatever floats your cork!
The teeth can be used for scratching as well. Some men even like to have their penis nibbled on. And
Sound as loud as you can on the exhale.
Movement by tightening and relaxing the PC muscle while moving the pelvis.
Presence through total focus on the sensations you’re experiencing.
4. RECEIVER BREATHES
Now, the giver stroke the receiver’s entire body more and more sensuously. Vary your strokes, pressure, and speed. Add patting, tapping, and even vibrating. Follow your beloved’s cues.
5. OIL
If the receiver chooses, warm some massage oil in your hands, and anoint their body, one section at a time. Slip and slide with long strokes for maximum turn-on. Be sure to brush by the genitals now and then.
6. CLOSING
Bring touch to a close. Hug, hold, or lie next to each other. Feel the receiver’s subtle excitement and energy. Talk about how the experience was for each of you.
7. SWITCH
Switch roles right away, or take a little break for the receiver to assimilate the new sensations.
KAMA SUTRA EMBRACES
THE INDIAN LOVE GUIDE
The Kama Sutra details many preliminaries to sexual union under the heading of “embraces.” From that 2,000-year old text on the sexual arts, we learn how the ancient Indians developed scratching, biting, kissing, and “the giving of blows” into a high art. (They weren’t talking about blow jobs at this point.)
The Kama Sutra cautions that people of good taste don’t make these embraces violent. We don’t find it particularly erotic to inflict severe pain and leave marks on your beloved’s body. As we said before, some lovers are so armored against sensation that they need the strongest possible stimulation to get turned on.
In contrast, our emphasis here is to learn to use this wide range of embraces subtly to increase your beloved’s sensitivity. Although not every one of these strokes is going to contribute to your personal delight or even lead you to ejaculation, we want to review some of the best for you to experiment with. You never know which ones will work best for you until you try them.
KAMA SUTRA KISSING
The Kama Sutra turned kissing into a glorious art form. It gave instructions about the different varieties from pecking to vibrant to rubbing in different positions and life situations. Try dry and wet, hard and soft, licking and sucking, long and short, nibbling and holding. You have many more options to play with than tongue fencing and deep throating.
Both the body and lips were fair game in the Kama Sutra. The Indian love guide describes “the kissing game,” which is alternating the giving and receiving for maximum excitement. This makes it eminently clear that kissing isn’t just for the lips!
KAMA SUTRA LICKING
Licking is juicy fun. Try many of the same variations mentioned in kissing, and try them all over. Some women especially like it very sloppy wet.
Slow is the key to ecstasy through licking. Stop if you get tired, and keep going if it turns you on. You’ll have your partner moaning and groaning with pleasure, and getting very wet or hard as well.
KAMA SUTRA SUCKING AND SQUEEZING
Remember how you liked getting hickeys when you were a teenager? The edge of pain can be very arousing for many. Beware, though, that you may feel very naughty!
Think also about squeezing, which is something you can do not just with your lips, but with your fingers, your hands, your arms, your legs, and your vagina.
For all its variety of kissing techniques, licking, and sucking all over the body, the Kama Sutra wasn’t very big on oral sex with the genitals. If you are, however, by all means, experiment.
KAMA SUTRA BITING
Biting can be light, medium, strong, or anywhere in between. Biting lips can be very erotic. The Kama Sutra instructed lovers to bite hard enough to leave marks all around the breast in an even pattern. These souvenirs were considered a mark of true love and an esteemed practice. We don’t advocate this, but whatever floats your cork!
The teeth can be used for scratching as well. Some men even like to have their penis nibbled on. And
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