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Authors: Cheryl T. Cohen-Greene
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up so that my back made a straight line. This is the point in the exercise in which I stop exploring the client and reflect on what we have discovered. Together, Brian and I gained a lot of knowledge about where his body was most reactive and sensitive to stimulation.
“I just learned a lot about where you like to be touched. Your frenulum, your perineum, the right side of your penis—these are all very sensitive areas for you. You also really responded to oral stimulation and liked it when I swirled my left hand down your penis. That’s a lot to work with.”
I asked Brian if he was comfortable and if he needed to use the bathroom or wanted a break. When he said he was okay, I asked if he was ready to explore me, and he nodded.
I slipped my legs out from underneath Brian’s. A layer of sweat had collected between us and my legs glided out easily. I placed them on top of his, so that our legs continued to make a V shape, but mine were on top now.
I handed Brian the mirror and asked him to turn it to the magnifying side.
With my fingers I spread my large labia so that the rest of my vulva came fully into view.
“So, if you take the mirror and position it right about here you’ll be able to get a good look,” I said, pointing to a spot on the bed. “I’ll take you on a tour of my vulva.”
I put a little lube on my finger.
Starting at the top of my vulva, I pointed out my clitoral hood, my clitoris, and my small labia. Then I noted my urethral opening. Brian asked if it was sensitive. I answered that I don’t enjoy having it stimulated, but that’s not true of all women, so always ask a partner. I also reminded him to wash his hands before touching his partner’s genitals so he didn’t introduce bacteria and to be sure that his fingernails were cut short with no rough or sharp edges.
I pointed to just below my urethral opening and said that my G-spot is on the other side of this. “It’s on the periurethral sponge, just about an inch inside on the roof of my vagina.”
I showed him the vestibule, the area just before the vaginal opening and noted my hymenal remnants, which look like four raggedy skin tags located on the top and bottom of the vestibule. Then I inserted my finger into the opening.
I took my finger out and moved it along my perineum.
Brian was breathing heavily and I saw that his scrotum had moved up closer to his body. His penis leaked pre-come. I asked him how he felt. “Good, but a little scared,” he said. When I asked why, he told me that he was afraid he was going to come too soon because he hadn’t been with a woman for so long. It had been two years since he had last had intercourse and his attempts had ended in frustration. I reminded him that he had stayed fully hard for about fifteen minutes now, longer than he had in a while. Then we took a few deep inhalations. I asked him to release any tension in his abdomen, butt, and thighs on the exhale. His erection relaxed, and we moved on. I invited him to put a little lube on his fingers and to start exploring me.
I lifted my clitoral hood and asked him to touch my clitoris. “Mmmm . . . that feels really nice. Some women find direct touch too intense, but I like it. It’s a good idea to start on the side of the clitoral hood and ask your partner if she likes to have her clitoris touched. She may not in the beginning, but that may change as she gets more aroused. Start with a light touch and then ask your partner to tell you how much pressure she likes. It’s best to explore with lubrication, either natural or something bought.”
I was starting to become aroused. I felt my butt and abdomen tighten and a flush of heat spread through my body. I took some deep breaths and released my muscles.
Brian moved his finger around the curve of my small labia. “That feels really nice, especially on the left side.”
I asked Brian to insert his finger into me up until the first knuckle and to curl it up toward the roof of my vagina.
“I just learned a lot about where you like to be touched. Your frenulum, your perineum, the right side of your penis—these are all very sensitive areas for you. You also really responded to oral stimulation and liked it when I swirled my left hand down your penis. That’s a lot to work with.”
I asked Brian if he was comfortable and if he needed to use the bathroom or wanted a break. When he said he was okay, I asked if he was ready to explore me, and he nodded.
I slipped my legs out from underneath Brian’s. A layer of sweat had collected between us and my legs glided out easily. I placed them on top of his, so that our legs continued to make a V shape, but mine were on top now.
I handed Brian the mirror and asked him to turn it to the magnifying side.
With my fingers I spread my large labia so that the rest of my vulva came fully into view.
“So, if you take the mirror and position it right about here you’ll be able to get a good look,” I said, pointing to a spot on the bed. “I’ll take you on a tour of my vulva.”
I put a little lube on my finger.
Starting at the top of my vulva, I pointed out my clitoral hood, my clitoris, and my small labia. Then I noted my urethral opening. Brian asked if it was sensitive. I answered that I don’t enjoy having it stimulated, but that’s not true of all women, so always ask a partner. I also reminded him to wash his hands before touching his partner’s genitals so he didn’t introduce bacteria and to be sure that his fingernails were cut short with no rough or sharp edges.
I pointed to just below my urethral opening and said that my G-spot is on the other side of this. “It’s on the periurethral sponge, just about an inch inside on the roof of my vagina.”
I showed him the vestibule, the area just before the vaginal opening and noted my hymenal remnants, which look like four raggedy skin tags located on the top and bottom of the vestibule. Then I inserted my finger into the opening.
I took my finger out and moved it along my perineum.
Brian was breathing heavily and I saw that his scrotum had moved up closer to his body. His penis leaked pre-come. I asked him how he felt. “Good, but a little scared,” he said. When I asked why, he told me that he was afraid he was going to come too soon because he hadn’t been with a woman for so long. It had been two years since he had last had intercourse and his attempts had ended in frustration. I reminded him that he had stayed fully hard for about fifteen minutes now, longer than he had in a while. Then we took a few deep inhalations. I asked him to release any tension in his abdomen, butt, and thighs on the exhale. His erection relaxed, and we moved on. I invited him to put a little lube on his fingers and to start exploring me.
I lifted my clitoral hood and asked him to touch my clitoris. “Mmmm . . . that feels really nice. Some women find direct touch too intense, but I like it. It’s a good idea to start on the side of the clitoral hood and ask your partner if she likes to have her clitoris touched. She may not in the beginning, but that may change as she gets more aroused. Start with a light touch and then ask your partner to tell you how much pressure she likes. It’s best to explore with lubrication, either natural or something bought.”
I was starting to become aroused. I felt my butt and abdomen tighten and a flush of heat spread through my body. I took some deep breaths and released my muscles.
Brian moved his finger around the curve of my small labia. “That feels really nice, especially on the left side.”
I asked Brian to insert his finger into me up until the first knuckle and to curl it up toward the roof of my vagina.
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