appeared on my list I knew he hadn’t unblocked me.
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Senior year brought a new blankness and a deep friendlessness. Then in late November, one year or a million years after he told me he was in love, Boyd’s name reappeared on my buddy list. Boydyboy—I’d forgotten what it looked like, doubted sometimes it had ever been real. I watched the name but didn’t message him, and after a few minutes it went away. For three nights that same thing happened. I didn’t know if it was a signal. We hadn’t spoken in school all year. After some timid and unsuccessful attempts to rekindle things with Itchy Chin Mike (now prom king), I had fallen in with the stoners, at least during lunch when I needed a table to sit at. The rest of the time I imagined my muscles were much bigger than they were and I hulked silently down the halls, keeping to myself. Boyd and I barely even looked at each other. Now this. On the fourth night of it I clicked his name.
OwOw0: hi boyd . Boydyboy: hello Ollie. OwOw0: how’s it going...? Boydyboy: up to my fuckin eyeballs in college essays. OwOw0: already?? Boydyboy: I’m trying for early admission OwOw0: oh, cool. what colleges are you looking at? Boydyboy: something far from fuckin Lee is my main priority. OwOw0: I haven’t even really thought about colleges yet. I’ll probably go to UMASS I guess if they’ll take me. Boydyboy: that’s way too close. OwOw0: I guess. or maybe someplace in Boston. Northeastern or Shuster. Boydyboy: still too close. I have this high suspicion that my future is going to really suck and the only way i can hold that off is to get the fuck out of here. OwOw0: why do you think it’s going to suck? Boydyboy: if the past is any indication.........
I could push him to say more, or I could leave it alone. Maybe I had learned to leave things alone.
OwOw0: so where are you applying? Boydyboy: Oregon state, a couple places in CA. OwOw0: wow you weren’t kidding about going far. Boydyboy: nope.
For a long time we said nothing more and I sat watching the cursor blink on my screen. I was sure nothing was going to come of this chat but for whatever reason I was reluctant to let it end. Maybe if I kept it going pure momentum would lead us to some kind of conclusion.
OwOw0: what are the application essays to these places like? Boydyboy: the worst. I’m facing some serious bullshit. OwOw0: what’s an example question Boydyboy: hold on. OwOw0: Sure Boydyboy: I got one. here: “Tell us about a time when you encountered someone who helped you discover yourself and your place in the human community.’ OwOw0: Yikes. Deepness follows. Boydyboy: I know right. OwOw0: so basically someone who helped you to know yourself more clearly than you did before? Boydyboy: basically yea. OwOw0: Who is your someone? Boydyboy: I don’t have one yet. :-( OwOw0: do you want to know who mine would be if i was writing it? Boydyboy: shall i guess? ha OwOw0: you don’t need to guess. it would be you Boyd.......
So was Boyd Wren ever in love with me? I still have no idea. When I bring all my experience to the question, I think he probably was. And that makes me angry. Having the world fuck you out of your first love is a hard thing to bear. By rights Boyd should’ve been my first kiss. He should’ve been the first person I touched without clothes. Most of all I should’ve been able to look into his blue eyes knowing he felt the same. In a different, more perfect world I would’ve had those things.
Boydyboy: OK. i don’t see why it would be me but ok. OwOw0: you don’t? sometimes i wonder if i’m completely insane or if i’ve ever known you at all. Boydyboy: we’ve known each ohter since preschool Ollie. OwOw0: that’s true. I’m sorry for things going so bad between us after all that time. Boydyboy: well that’s just another brick in the wall now isn’t it Oliver. OwOw0: everybody hurts. that’s what