in the clear-cut bullshit of textbooks—and I was able to get through my junior-year finals cleanly enough to get Mr. Bowen off my back. But still most nights I was fighting through the busy signals and stalking my buddy list like a brokenhearted ghost. Boyd’s name no longer bounced but seemed flattened from a weight I could not lift.
Boydyboy: why are you still online? its so late ugh OwOw0: what else am i Going to do? Boydyboy: how about ANYTHING ELSE. OwOw0: whatever. Are you going to the end of year talent show thing tomorrow? Boydyboy: Fuck no. it’s the last day of school, i’m not even going in, i’ll be long gone already. are you? OwOw0: ......they’re usually pretty cool but if you’re not going i don’t really have anyone to sit with! Boydyboy: it’s all singing. you would want to go to something like that hahaha . OwOw0: so you don’t want to go? Boydyboy: Nope. OwOw0: OK. Boydyboy: but that reminds me. there’s soemthing i want to tell you Ollie.
Even though I was tired I felt myself pop to full alertness. After all these awkward months, he still had me—even when I was confident he was only teasing.
OwOw0: you always want to tell me something. what is it now? Boydyboy: it involves.... homosexuality.......... :-/
Still he could make my pulse pound. And feel quiet at the same time. It had taken all year but now here we were, the last day before summer, and I was ready. I wouldn’t lie again. I held out my hands. They weren’t shaking. I typed.
OwOw0: I’m here Boyd. Boydyboy: Someone you like is gay. OwOw0: Is it who I think it is?..... Boydyboy: Maybe. you might already know who. OwOw0: i might have known for a while......... Boydyboy: It’s Michael Stipe your precious fucking REM god.
I looked at the screen with my eyes squinted and, like coming out of darkness into light, I knew that in spite of what we had always been, in spite of what we may have almost become, Boyd and I were nothing now.
OwOw0: shut up. Boydyboy: he’s a giant fag. i thought you knew. I thought that’s why you were so in love with him. hehehehehe . OwOw0: I only have the CDs. Boydyboy: well he’s gay. It’s public, he admits it. What do you have to say about that? OwOw0: Your lying. Boydyboy: whatever, sure i am. search for his name on the web and youll see for yourself. OwOw0: no....... Boydyboy: Are you still going to listen to him now that he’s gay... OwOw0: well i still listen to you and you’re a giant fucking faggot right? Boydyboy: fuck you faggot................... I’m going to fucking block you now before you say something you’ll regret.
He did, too. He beat me to it.
***
That summer I got a job cleaning oil pans at the auto-body place in the center of town. With my first few paychecks I bought a weight bench and set it up in our basement. I spent hours every night that summer lifting weights and listening to R.E.M. At least something Boyd had told me was true: my rock-god idol Michael Stipe was a gay man, and had been out for a while; I’d never known. Songs that had only pulled at my heartstrings before now made me cry, because now they were more for me than they’d ever been. I wanted to be like him. I wanted to be proud, and confident, and bold. I would’ve settled for being not so afraid. Lifting weights was a good excuse to be alone, and before long I had something to show for it. I put on muscle easily, and the ticks I’d always had with things like numbers and lines lent themselves well to lifting. Every quarter inch my chest grew felt like a fuck-you to Boyd and to anyone else who would call me a fag. At night after leaving the bench I would crawl up the stairs to my bedroom and go online (my parents had finally installed my own line). I would look at porn, I would go in anonymous chatrooms and talk to anonymous men. I would watch my buddy list, too. I had long since unblocked Boyd, but since his name never