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the studies were remarkably similar. Measuring from the pubic bone to the tip of the penis head, the average limp penis is about 3.5 inches and the average erect penis is about 5 inches, give or take an inch. (In the most recent study of 2,276 men from Turkey, the average erect penis was 5.5 inches.) The average circumference when erect is about 4.5 inches. When guys measure their own penises, they end up being almost an inch longer than when researchers do it.
Manliness — What Is It?
In our culture, being manly means you don’t act gay. It also means if you have girly parts to your character, you keep them well hidden. But this is defining masculinity by saying what it isn’t.
What is being masculine? Is it a physical way of being? Is it a state of mind? Is it having the right politics? Is it what your dick gets hard over? Can you still be manly if you sound like a prissy snap-queen? This Guide’s definition of masculinity keeps evolving. Here it is in its current state:
Masculinity is mostly an invention of modern culture. It doesn’t have a huge foundation in science or nature, yet it remains a powerful force in the way we view ourselves and each other.
To be manly or masculine in American culture, a guy should be a fairly responsible person who can be independent when the occasion demands. As often as not, he should be caring, comforting, and kind. He should be able to give and receive physical and emotional tenderness without being too controlling. He should have values and a good work ethic, and he shouldn’t need to prove his masculinity by trying to scare or intimidate others.
He doesn’t need to have a pussy-seeking sensor at the end of his penis, and his physical appearance can range from Bill Gates geek to movie-star perfect. Showering should be a priority.
There are plenty of males who have none of these qualities, but appear to be total studs nonetheless. These are guys who usually take their penises way too seriously. That is because the only way they can convince themselves that they are real men is by performing manly activities or drinking lots of beer or doing drugs, and then having a vagina nearby that they can stick themselves into. They tend to be more show than substance.
Penis As Camouflage: Why It’s Difficult to Be Satisfied By a Guy Who Takes His Penis Too Seriously
A hard penis is sometimes used to camouflage what’s missing inside a man, as well as what’s missing in a relationship between a man and a woman. If a guy is all hung up about his penis being a symbol of his manliness or demands that it have a disproportionate amount of attention, then it gets in the way of his being at one with a lover. The same is true for a male who needs to always play a manly role. He sometimes feels more warmth for his car or computer than for his partner.
Unfortunately, a lot of women grew up thinking that a distant, self-involved, dick-centered type of guy is what manhood is all about. As a result, they end up being attracted to males with whom they can never really get close, and spend the rest of their lives bellyaching about what duds men are.
Narcisso ’Gasms
Biologically, most women can have a couple of orgasms to the average man’s one. This is fine with most men, since most of us would like to see our partners have as much pleasure as their hearts and loins desire. But for a man who takes his penis too seriously, orgasm giving can become too important. A partner’s orgasms become reassurance that he is a total guy. We all do this to some extent, but for some it’s a matter of narcissistic life and death.
If your man is like this, you may discover that your main function in life is to look good and have lots of loud orgasms. Or maybe it’s just to look good. Consider yourself an offering to the great Dick God.
The Penile-Pumping Regatta
Some men lose emotional connection once intercourse begins. The woman starts to feel like she’s become a masturbation machine. Sex becomes a
Manliness — What Is It?
In our culture, being manly means you don’t act gay. It also means if you have girly parts to your character, you keep them well hidden. But this is defining masculinity by saying what it isn’t.
What is being masculine? Is it a physical way of being? Is it a state of mind? Is it having the right politics? Is it what your dick gets hard over? Can you still be manly if you sound like a prissy snap-queen? This Guide’s definition of masculinity keeps evolving. Here it is in its current state:
Masculinity is mostly an invention of modern culture. It doesn’t have a huge foundation in science or nature, yet it remains a powerful force in the way we view ourselves and each other.
To be manly or masculine in American culture, a guy should be a fairly responsible person who can be independent when the occasion demands. As often as not, he should be caring, comforting, and kind. He should be able to give and receive physical and emotional tenderness without being too controlling. He should have values and a good work ethic, and he shouldn’t need to prove his masculinity by trying to scare or intimidate others.
He doesn’t need to have a pussy-seeking sensor at the end of his penis, and his physical appearance can range from Bill Gates geek to movie-star perfect. Showering should be a priority.
There are plenty of males who have none of these qualities, but appear to be total studs nonetheless. These are guys who usually take their penises way too seriously. That is because the only way they can convince themselves that they are real men is by performing manly activities or drinking lots of beer or doing drugs, and then having a vagina nearby that they can stick themselves into. They tend to be more show than substance.
Penis As Camouflage: Why It’s Difficult to Be Satisfied By a Guy Who Takes His Penis Too Seriously
A hard penis is sometimes used to camouflage what’s missing inside a man, as well as what’s missing in a relationship between a man and a woman. If a guy is all hung up about his penis being a symbol of his manliness or demands that it have a disproportionate amount of attention, then it gets in the way of his being at one with a lover. The same is true for a male who needs to always play a manly role. He sometimes feels more warmth for his car or computer than for his partner.
Unfortunately, a lot of women grew up thinking that a distant, self-involved, dick-centered type of guy is what manhood is all about. As a result, they end up being attracted to males with whom they can never really get close, and spend the rest of their lives bellyaching about what duds men are.
Narcisso ’Gasms
Biologically, most women can have a couple of orgasms to the average man’s one. This is fine with most men, since most of us would like to see our partners have as much pleasure as their hearts and loins desire. But for a man who takes his penis too seriously, orgasm giving can become too important. A partner’s orgasms become reassurance that he is a total guy. We all do this to some extent, but for some it’s a matter of narcissistic life and death.
If your man is like this, you may discover that your main function in life is to look good and have lots of loud orgasms. Or maybe it’s just to look good. Consider yourself an offering to the great Dick God.
The Penile-Pumping Regatta
Some men lose emotional connection once intercourse begins. The woman starts to feel like she’s become a masturbation machine. Sex becomes a
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