fulfilment therapy including heavy drinking.
My first experience of Marin County fulfilment therapy was Tracy, a cocktail waitress at No Names Bar where I hang out when Iâm in Marin. Tracy understands the restless soul. In Marin they have a style of talking that is very mellow and a vocabulary that has no edges to it.
Tracy isnât really a cocktail waitress: sheâs a student seriously into deep-tissue massage therapy. She has been doing political science but moved across to physical therapy. In New York I found that the whores called themselves therapists; here in Marin the nice girls are into deep-tissue massage therapy (and all it can suggest).
âYou are relating in a hands-on way to people and at least you see two years of tension roll away and people get up from the table smiling,â she said.
âWith political science itâs all verbalising and you never know whether youâre doing good or bad.â
Later we tooled up to Bolinas in her Mustang to Smileyâs Bar, which is an old hippy hangout.
When I walked into the bar I felt Iâd walked back 10 years â more. It is the place where all the hippies and flower children came to die.
Now they play Space Invaders and pool.
The vegetarian cafe opposite Smileyâs showed an uncharacteristic sense of humour for a vegetarian cafe and named itself Scowleys.
When I said to Tracy, âMy God, this is it â this is the bar where all the hippies and flower children come to die,â she became very upset.
âMy step-father is an old hippy,â she said, âand heâs a very mellow kind of guy.â
âDonât get me wrong,â I said, âIâm an old hippy myself. I wouldnât mind coming here to Bolinas and Smileyâs bar to die.â
I said that we old hippies didnât seem to have left much of a mark on the world.
âI disagree strongly,â Tracy said, âand itâs all going to come back (please no!) and this time it is really going to be a revolution âcause all the old hippies are in power places and things like that and theyâll respond to new hippies.â
Well, maybe.
Tracy told me that Bolinas was where the âwhale thing beganâ, where the Friends of the Earth headquarters were, and where Brautigan blew his brains out.
The dogs all have a dreadful flea problem and scratch themselves against buildings and on gravelroads because the people of Bolinas donât use flea wash or flea spray and rely instead on organic collars soaked in herbs. The dogs say it doesnât work.
There are no drug stores in Bolinas (in the accepted meaning of the word âdrugâ).
Marin has two great beach villages â Bolinas and Stinson Beach. Stinson beach is more chic.
âActually,â Tracy said, âyou should start your drinking at Stinson Beach â at the Sand Dollar bar â and finish the night at Smileyâs â you have your first ten cocktails at the Sand Dollar and your second ten at Smileyâs.
âYou know what a cocktail dress is?â Tracy asked. âWell, Iâll tell you â itâs a dress you need five cocktails before you are mellow enough to wear it.â
In the Sand Dollar we saw this really unhappy chic lady with her arm in a sling and both eyes black â really black â she seemed to have been in a bar brawl.
The cocktail waitress at the Sand Dollar told us the story.
This ladyâs husband had gone away for a week on business and for the first time in her life the lady decided to go to Bolinas and pick up a guy for the night. She had her ten cocktails at the Sand Dollar and tooled up to Smileyâs in her BMW where she picked up an ex-hippy flower-power boy and took him home for the night. At home he bashed her up, set fire to the luxury beachside house, stole her BMW car and crashed it into the sea, where it still was.
The chic lady with her arm in the sling clutching her Tequila
Alexandra Amor
The Duke Next Door
John Wilcox
Clarence Major
David Perlmutter M. D., Alberto Villoldo Ph.d.
Susan Wiggs
Vicki Myron
Mack Maloney
Stephen L. Antczak, James C. Bassett
Unknown