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Authors: Sadie Allison
Tags: Self-Help, Sexual Instruction
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wondering, right? Well relax, it’s no big deal.
To clear your mind, as well as your rectum, just go to the bathroom beforehand. When you feel empty, or if you’ve had a bowel movement within the previous few hours, you should be fine. Your five-inch rectum normally stays clear until you get “the signal” that it’s time to go again. If you get that feeling once he’s inside, that’s normal, but it’s most likely him. Enjoy!
Will you need an enema beforehand? Nope—but feel free. Should you wash down there in advance? Yes—lather up well. Will any poop come out on whatever you insert? Perhaps—just clean it up with some disposable wipes or a warm, wet, dark-colored washcloth (no need to “see” any mess). Might there be farting? Probably—you’re pushing air up there. It’s funny—so just laugh!
Cowgirls Only!
Insider Tips For Smoother Anal
When you’ve decided to explore the joys of anal sex, and after you’ve talked with your lover about safety, lubrication and being patient, here are a few ways to ease into the pleasure:
A Heat up. The best primer for anal sex—is sex itself. Enjoy a round or two of oral orgasms or vaginal intercourse to get the blood flowing to all the right places. Try using a small butt plug during Doggystyle, or let his lubed finger get things started.
A Open up. Since the anus is naturally tight, the secret to accepting his lubricated penis is to lightly push outward with your anal muscles, while he’s gently inserting.
A Speak up. Don’t be shy. Say what you’re thinking so he’ll know he’s being a great lover. Try “slower” or “not so deep” or “ouch!” or “YESSS!” Note: some guys don’t believe “stop” really means “STOP.” It’s better to create a “safe word”—a secret word you both agree in advance will really mean “STOP!” (e.g. “Pancake!”)
A Ease up. Relax. Breathe deeply. Don’t clench or stiffen. This is mind over body—and you’re in control, because pleasure is your goal.
A Loosen up. While drugs and hard liquor can easily lead to sloppy preparation and poor decision-making, a glass of wine might be just the ticket to relaxing and getting into the zone.
A Bottoms up. Although you may come to love anal sex, you’re not obligated to do it often. Think of it more as a special, naughty erotic treat!
Cowboys Only!
How To Be Her Anal Hero
After you’ve talked it over, and agreed to try it, this isn’t your cue to barge right in. It IS your cue to show her you’re a world-class lover (or plan on kissing her butt goodbye!).
B Preheat. She needs you to begin slowly and lovingly to start her hot blood rushing to the scene. Best way? Hot foreplay with an orgasm or two. You know you’re doing it right if she never tells you to slow down.
B Touch. Show her you’ve got talented, confident hands by using them to seduce her lower back, inner thighs and butt cheeks. Kiss her all over. Take your time.
B Tongue. Whip her into a frenzy by licking and kissing her vagina, clitoris, then her ultra-sensitive anus. Flick gently before you tease the tip in and out.
B Nestle. Gently slide a well-lubricated finger into her anus, but only to the first knuckle. Now hold it still. Feel her sphincter involuntarily pulsating around your digit. Now wiggle, just a little, and relax her muscles even more.
B Excite. Slide in your finger a little further to the second knuckle, but resist stroking in’n’out. Hold still, and see if you feel her
Dr. Sadie Sez: For A Big Rush, Just Go Slow.
Even though you’ve talked it over, she may not be ready for anal sex. Instead, try treating her to other stimulating anal pleasures. Fingertip just the outside of her anus. Tease her with the tip of your tongue. If she’s okay with it, gently insert a lubed finger or a small butt plug. If you gradually increase stimulation, perhaps someday she’ll be penis-ready. Or just give her this book to read on her own.
loosening up. Whisper, “I’m holding
To clear your mind, as well as your rectum, just go to the bathroom beforehand. When you feel empty, or if you’ve had a bowel movement within the previous few hours, you should be fine. Your five-inch rectum normally stays clear until you get “the signal” that it’s time to go again. If you get that feeling once he’s inside, that’s normal, but it’s most likely him. Enjoy!
Will you need an enema beforehand? Nope—but feel free. Should you wash down there in advance? Yes—lather up well. Will any poop come out on whatever you insert? Perhaps—just clean it up with some disposable wipes or a warm, wet, dark-colored washcloth (no need to “see” any mess). Might there be farting? Probably—you’re pushing air up there. It’s funny—so just laugh!
Cowgirls Only!
Insider Tips For Smoother Anal
When you’ve decided to explore the joys of anal sex, and after you’ve talked with your lover about safety, lubrication and being patient, here are a few ways to ease into the pleasure:
A Heat up. The best primer for anal sex—is sex itself. Enjoy a round or two of oral orgasms or vaginal intercourse to get the blood flowing to all the right places. Try using a small butt plug during Doggystyle, or let his lubed finger get things started.
A Open up. Since the anus is naturally tight, the secret to accepting his lubricated penis is to lightly push outward with your anal muscles, while he’s gently inserting.
A Speak up. Don’t be shy. Say what you’re thinking so he’ll know he’s being a great lover. Try “slower” or “not so deep” or “ouch!” or “YESSS!” Note: some guys don’t believe “stop” really means “STOP.” It’s better to create a “safe word”—a secret word you both agree in advance will really mean “STOP!” (e.g. “Pancake!”)
A Ease up. Relax. Breathe deeply. Don’t clench or stiffen. This is mind over body—and you’re in control, because pleasure is your goal.
A Loosen up. While drugs and hard liquor can easily lead to sloppy preparation and poor decision-making, a glass of wine might be just the ticket to relaxing and getting into the zone.
A Bottoms up. Although you may come to love anal sex, you’re not obligated to do it often. Think of it more as a special, naughty erotic treat!
Cowboys Only!
How To Be Her Anal Hero
After you’ve talked it over, and agreed to try it, this isn’t your cue to barge right in. It IS your cue to show her you’re a world-class lover (or plan on kissing her butt goodbye!).
B Preheat. She needs you to begin slowly and lovingly to start her hot blood rushing to the scene. Best way? Hot foreplay with an orgasm or two. You know you’re doing it right if she never tells you to slow down.
B Touch. Show her you’ve got talented, confident hands by using them to seduce her lower back, inner thighs and butt cheeks. Kiss her all over. Take your time.
B Tongue. Whip her into a frenzy by licking and kissing her vagina, clitoris, then her ultra-sensitive anus. Flick gently before you tease the tip in and out.
B Nestle. Gently slide a well-lubricated finger into her anus, but only to the first knuckle. Now hold it still. Feel her sphincter involuntarily pulsating around your digit. Now wiggle, just a little, and relax her muscles even more.
B Excite. Slide in your finger a little further to the second knuckle, but resist stroking in’n’out. Hold still, and see if you feel her
Dr. Sadie Sez: For A Big Rush, Just Go Slow.
Even though you’ve talked it over, she may not be ready for anal sex. Instead, try treating her to other stimulating anal pleasures. Fingertip just the outside of her anus. Tease her with the tip of your tongue. If she’s okay with it, gently insert a lubed finger or a small butt plug. If you gradually increase stimulation, perhaps someday she’ll be penis-ready. Or just give her this book to read on her own.
loosening up. Whisper, “I’m holding
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