vocabulary from me. As it turned out, he'd been reading the dictionary behind my back. I think the most serious issue was about 2 years after we got him, when Pickles started to bite Neil. He was biting hard and drawing blood any time Neil tried to get him to step up. There were 2 reasons we believe were the cause. I had come out from behind the counter at the shop one day to help someone choose some flies and another customer ducked behind the counter and got Pickles to step up. He moved fast for a large, imposing looking man and I didn’t have time to react. By the time I got to him, Pickles was running up his arm and the man was grabbing his beak and teasingly shaking Pickles head. Pickles didn’t like this and he bit, but this guy just thought it was funny and kept doing it. I got Pickles off the guy’s arm as soon as I got there but the harm had been done. From that moment, Pickles would talk to men but he didn’t like being too close and would not step up for them, and this included Neil. Neil became quite fearful of Pickles and of course, Pickles picked up on this. He would offer Neil his neck for scratches but when Neil went to oblige, Pickles would whip his head around and bite—hard. Around the same time, Neil had taken a 6-month job out of town, which meant he was only home for the odd weekend. During this time, Pickles bonded tight with me and Neil had become almost a stranger to him. It was frustrating for me when Neil came home to visit because, since he couldn’t get close to Pickles there was little interaction between the two of them. Pickles had grown use to our routine of going for walks around the house or playing on the couch. He can be quite the card while playing and I would try to get Neil to watch but Neil was beginning to resent the time I spent with Pickles when he and I had so little time together these days. I was afraid their relationship was doomed for life, which wasn’t fair for all involved. I hatched a plan. Once he finished the out-of-town job, I made Neil Pickles’ primary caregiver. Neil did all the feeding and all the cage cleaning. Pickles’ favourite treats are pine nuts so Neil would drop them into Pickles’ bowl or next to him throughout the day. Neil didn’t get too close the first few days but made a point of standing next to Pickles just to chat. I taught Neil how to read Pickles body language so he could anticipate a bite and before long he was able to pick his moments and get Pickles to step up. All interaction with Pickles was to be fun, nothing negative and I handled any unpleasant situations that arose. Pickles soon learned that all interaction with Neil was fun and games and they bonded quickly. A few months later, Neil wrote an article for Good Bird Magazine entitled The Myth of One Person Birds. He wrote how to change it and how it’s selfish not to. If something happens to a parrot’s primary caregiver what becomes of that parrot? What kind of life will he have if he’s incapable of bonding to anybody else? A short time down the road, Neil had to go out of town again for 2 months and this time Pickles was miserable. If Pickles is miserable, I’m miserable. Not just because I feel sorry for him but also because the little snot is convinced it’s entirely my fault so he rags on me all day. If parrots had their own swear words, his spiteful squawks would surely be unspeakable and when he does use his words, it’s an insistent “Dadddeeeeeeeee. Daddy be right back!! Dadddeeeeeee. Daddy’s home??? Dadddeeeeeee….”. I’d rather pluck nose hairs than listen to that. Two nights after Neil's departure, Pickles is especially cranky. After an intense bout of the above behavior and mad at me for ignoring him, he stomped around the top of his cage attacking every single toy that had the nerve to cross his path then promptly ran down the outside cage bars and plopped his head into the outside pellet bowl. There he hung, clinging to the bars upside down with