privacy?â She puts her hands on my shoulders and squeezes. âSorry. Of course you can. Iâll crash on the couch in the den.â She grins. âSo you can take all the time you need.â After sheâs gone, I sit for a while just watching the screen saver, a goofy one with Santaâs reindeer flying around the screen. I havenât checked my e-mail since I sent Ethan that awful note saying I wanted to end it. Not so long ago, I guess, but it feels like forever. My heart is beating so fast. Finally I punch in my password, and there in my inbox is a message from Ethan. Subject: Not without a fight . I open his message and read it derek. i know u said u didnât want to continue this but i canât accept that not without some explanation. not without a fight. everything was great until i said i was coming out to Ontario. so tell me whatâs wrong. please. u know what i think? i think ur scared about meeting in person. u think iâm not? it scares the hell out of me. iâm scared u wonât like me as much in person, iâm scared i wonât know what to say, iâm scared i wonât turn u on. iâm scared u will think iâm a lousy kisser. seriously. iâve actually worried about that. but now iâm just scared iâll never get a chance to find out. I read it again and again and again. I take a deep breath. Then I start typing.