no one to take care of him when he collapsed into bed each nightâI think that maybe it would have made more sense for Paul and Bess not to get divorced.
But what do I know of my brotherâs life, really?
I called Paul at his downtown office the very next afternoon. He works on State Street as a financial analyst.
You can see again why Paul doesnât have much time for himself. Virtually all the hours not spent commutingâabout two hours dailyâand workingâten-hour days are commonâare spent with the kids.
âHi,â I said, when his assistant had put me through. âItâs me.â
âI know. Peg told me. Whatâs up?â
He sounded distracted, busy, remote.
âCan I come out for a bit this Saturday? Maybe for lunch. Iâll bring something.â
âThe kids will be there you know,â he said.
âI figured. Thatâs fine.â
âThen sure. Come around noon. Emmaâs got swimming lessons at two-thirty and Matthew has physical therapy at three oâclock, so that gives us about two hours before I have to get on the road.â
I thanked Paul and hung up. Iâm sure he was already deep into the next task or demand or crisis before I did. It exhausted me even to think about his life.
Sometimes, too, I wondered how much my decision not to have children of my own had been informed by the example of Paul and his family. Maybe my choosing not to have children was like dodging a bullet pretty sure to shatter at least some aspects of my life.
Dodging a bullet. How grim. And how ridiculous to think Iâd protected myself from harm by deciding not to have children. Because now I was pregnant in spite of that decision, and if my life hadnât exactly been harmed it certainly had been disrupted.
Face it, Anna, I told myself. There are no guarantees in this world. Youâd have to be dumb not to know that.
But you didnât have to like it.
12
Sympathy for the Devil
I called Michaela and suggested we meet for a drink one evening.
âThis week is hell for me,â she said briskly, âbut I can give you half an hour on Wednesday. Meet me at six at the bar at Leopard.â
Michaela Newman seems to have everything. Sometime in her early thirties, she left the financial services firm where sheâd been a bond analyst since graduating from business school and started her own financial consultant business. If her designer clothes, spectacular apartment at the Marina Bay condo development, 7 Series BMW, and twice yearly trips to Canyon Ranch are any indication of financial success, Michaela is a winner.
To boot, sheâs also stunning, tall, and voluptuous, with dark, glossy hair that falls just below her shoulders. Michaela is the woman every other woman hates on sight. And thereâs some reason for women continuing to hate her after that first impression. The truth is that Michaela can be brash and self-serving and even, on occasion, cruel.
I met Michaela about the time I met Ross, at a small women-in-business seminar I hadnât wanted to go to in the first place. Neither, it turned out, had Michaela, but sheâd been offered a nice honorarium to speak. Michaela, I was to learn, didnât do much of anything without a self-serving motive.
I was never really close to Michaela, not in the way Iâm close to Alexandra, Kristen, and Tracy. We had no common history and no shared interests other than owning our own businesses. Iâm not quite sure why we called each other friends; maybe we never actually used that term.
So, if we werenât friends, what were we? Circumstantial urban acquaintances? Or maybe Michaela was something like an unexplained rash. There seems to be no cause for it; itâs just suddenly there, and it itches, but after a while you learn to live with it, and one day you notice with surprise that itâs gone, and you realize thereâs only a faint memory of irritation and you miss
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