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Authors: Violet Blue
Tags: Psychology, Reference, Self-Help, Health & Fitness, Sexual Instruction, Sexuality, Personal & Practical Guides, Human Sexuality, Women's Health
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Allow latex barriers into your erotic fantasies. Incorporate them into your masturbation sessions. Imagine the naughty, yet sweet, ways you can add them to your encounters, such as having a folded dam tucked in your bra or shirt pocket, or keeping your gloves in the aptly named glove compartment of your car.
CHAPTER 5
Tastes and Textures
Eating pussy is like eating peaches on a really hot day.
In sharing sex and sexuality, we open our senses to one another and inhale . We take pictures with our eyes, allowing the images to feed the flames of arousal. Scents emanate from hair and skin, mingling in our mouths and noses to release chemicals that turn us on. Soft moans, a sharp intake of breath, or languid music can sweetly sink us into an erotic mind frame. And touch is king: kisses, nibbles, nuzzling, stroking, pinching, grabbing—all accelerants for the fire.
How our lovers appear to us is the basis for sexual chemistry. How your lover tastes, smells, feels, and looks contribute to your overall sensory experience. When you go down on a woman, your senses are going to be greeted on many levels.
Hair: Velvet or Velcro?
Pubic hair can be a prickly topic for some couples and an issue of concern for an uneasy cunnilingus novice. How women wear their hair down there can vary for a number reasons: genetic, personal, political. A woman who is content with a furry pelt may pose a little forethought for the orally inclined, whereas a clean-shaven vulva can quickly become an angry cactus to a sensitive face.
Some folks love, love, love the hair—the feel, the ambiance—and have no hesitations when shedding occurs. For others, renegade hairs can put a damper on the whole experience. As a giver of cunnilingus, one good tactic for dealing with stray hairs is to gently run your fingers through her pubic hair to dislodge any strays before you get started, something easily incorporated into foreplay. Gently holding her outer lips open with your fingers as you lick can keep the hair mostly out of the way and is a good idea if she has stubble from shaving. Talking to her about your feelings and concerns is always a great idea—you may be surprised to find out how she feels.
Women who are concerned about their partner’s comfort but want to avoid any inconvenience might consider lightly trimming the area where the outer lips turn into the inner lips, and the area above the clitoral hood. This coif shows off the vulva slightly, and some women find that they enjoy it. If a woman is so inclined, she can put her partner in charge of administering an erotic weekly trim—a duty some partners relish and consider part of foreplay.
One of the hottest times ever was when I told my lover I wanted to go down on her but I wanted to trim her pussy hair first. We both got so turned on as I trimmed her, and I went down on her for a long, long time.
For a trim, an electric beard trimmer works quite well—in fact, it’s sort of a turn-on for me to be trimming my beard later, knowing where it’s been.
Adventurous partners can try shaving the hair partly or completely off. Women who shave might want to reshave regularly, so that your stubble doesn’t abrade your partner’s face, lips, and tongue. If you’re caught up in the throes of arousal and don’t want to stop everything to go shave, try covering your pubic bone with your hand, as a shield.
My partner and I both shave our pubes so we can achieve a higher tongue-to-skin ratio.
Shaving
If you’d like to shave, follow these suggestions:
• Before starting, trim the hair down with a pair of small scissors, such as mustache trimmers.
• Take a shower or a warm bath to soften the hair.
• To decrease irritation, you might want to rub a bit of oil into the skin under the hair before shaving; try almond or olive, but be sure not to get it inside the vagina.
• Put hair conditioner in your pubic hair even before
Allow latex barriers into your erotic fantasies. Incorporate them into your masturbation sessions. Imagine the naughty, yet sweet, ways you can add them to your encounters, such as having a folded dam tucked in your bra or shirt pocket, or keeping your gloves in the aptly named glove compartment of your car.
CHAPTER 5
Tastes and Textures
Eating pussy is like eating peaches on a really hot day.
In sharing sex and sexuality, we open our senses to one another and inhale . We take pictures with our eyes, allowing the images to feed the flames of arousal. Scents emanate from hair and skin, mingling in our mouths and noses to release chemicals that turn us on. Soft moans, a sharp intake of breath, or languid music can sweetly sink us into an erotic mind frame. And touch is king: kisses, nibbles, nuzzling, stroking, pinching, grabbing—all accelerants for the fire.
How our lovers appear to us is the basis for sexual chemistry. How your lover tastes, smells, feels, and looks contribute to your overall sensory experience. When you go down on a woman, your senses are going to be greeted on many levels.
Hair: Velvet or Velcro?
Pubic hair can be a prickly topic for some couples and an issue of concern for an uneasy cunnilingus novice. How women wear their hair down there can vary for a number reasons: genetic, personal, political. A woman who is content with a furry pelt may pose a little forethought for the orally inclined, whereas a clean-shaven vulva can quickly become an angry cactus to a sensitive face.
Some folks love, love, love the hair—the feel, the ambiance—and have no hesitations when shedding occurs. For others, renegade hairs can put a damper on the whole experience. As a giver of cunnilingus, one good tactic for dealing with stray hairs is to gently run your fingers through her pubic hair to dislodge any strays before you get started, something easily incorporated into foreplay. Gently holding her outer lips open with your fingers as you lick can keep the hair mostly out of the way and is a good idea if she has stubble from shaving. Talking to her about your feelings and concerns is always a great idea—you may be surprised to find out how she feels.
Women who are concerned about their partner’s comfort but want to avoid any inconvenience might consider lightly trimming the area where the outer lips turn into the inner lips, and the area above the clitoral hood. This coif shows off the vulva slightly, and some women find that they enjoy it. If a woman is so inclined, she can put her partner in charge of administering an erotic weekly trim—a duty some partners relish and consider part of foreplay.
One of the hottest times ever was when I told my lover I wanted to go down on her but I wanted to trim her pussy hair first. We both got so turned on as I trimmed her, and I went down on her for a long, long time.
For a trim, an electric beard trimmer works quite well—in fact, it’s sort of a turn-on for me to be trimming my beard later, knowing where it’s been.
Adventurous partners can try shaving the hair partly or completely off. Women who shave might want to reshave regularly, so that your stubble doesn’t abrade your partner’s face, lips, and tongue. If you’re caught up in the throes of arousal and don’t want to stop everything to go shave, try covering your pubic bone with your hand, as a shield.
My partner and I both shave our pubes so we can achieve a higher tongue-to-skin ratio.
Shaving
If you’d like to shave, follow these suggestions:
• Before starting, trim the hair down with a pair of small scissors, such as mustache trimmers.
• Take a shower or a warm bath to soften the hair.
• To decrease irritation, you might want to rub a bit of oil into the skin under the hair before shaving; try almond or olive, but be sure not to get it inside the vagina.
• Put hair conditioner in your pubic hair even before
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