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inherent expression of his masculinity -- it's not a sign of a character flaw or a medically treatable condition. Dudes are horny, they try to have sex with girls, and that has nothing to do with their deeper political beliefs about the role of women and gender in our society.
And once they realize that -- and accept that if they want sex, they and they alone are responsible for initiating and managing their sexual relationship -- then they can relax, safely ignore all of that crap about the politically correct method of coitus, and get his freak on like Nature intended by initiating sex without fear of judgment .
And yes, he might get judged . . . but the next step on the Red Pill journey is ceasing to give unworthy women the power of judgment over you. O nce you realize that to screw them you have to ignore what they say and pay attention to what they do, then what they say even about you gets a lot less credibility.
Case in point: college girl I knew absolutely hated the whole macho Alpha image thing with a passion, to the point where she would confront jocks and d-bags in the college cafeteria about their alleged douchebaggery and lack of respect for women by these oversexed walking phalluses . . . and then at the end of the semester she was the FB of three dudes on the wrestling team who could care less what she thought about them. It wasn't her opinion that they were trying to get into.
So the best thing a dude can do is suck it up. Accept the fact that despite what our popular culture might be saying, in fact the female sex drive tends to be reactive, not proactive, and that you will have to put forth more effort than you'd probably like if you want to improve your sex life. Deal with it.
Because if you wait for your reactive-desire wife or girlfriend to suddenly develop spontaneous desire, you're going to be there for a while. With blue balls. You have to step up and aggressively pursue a consistent strategy of seduction and pursuit or you're locked in Blue Pill Betahood until the divorce.
It's possible to be sexually proactive and not be a douchebag. Indeed, a lot of happily married couples with long histories figure out ways to do just that, and end up enjoying a long and lusty sex life. The ideal Red Pill goal is to get to a place where your ability to initiate gets distilled down to a comfortable, easy-to-recognize signal that immediately dampens panties.
That's the beauty of Married Game, and the difference between it and Dating Game. In Dating Game, the goal is to establish a relationship that leads to sex with the least amount of effort and expenditure of resources as possible. Married Game's goal is to establish a pattern of sexual behavior in a relationship that encourages an interpersonal intimacy in which sex is not "if" but "when", with the least amount of effort and expenditure of resources as possible. In Dating Game you're hunting wild pussy. In Married Game, you have domesticated pussy available. But if you don't husband it properly by consistently and aggressively initiating sex with your woman (paying particular attention to her menstrual cycle) and giving her the opportunity to react favorably , then no matter how well the initial domestication went, you're going to have problems on your hands and more porn on your computer.
It can be hard. Once you take the Red Pill, and understand the realities of the situation instead of focusing on some theoretical ideal of sexual equality your relationship is supposed to measure up to, then you can accept the idea that initiating sex is your responsibility as a man, not your (plural) responsibility as a couple. If her sexuality is reactive, and you aren't being proactive, then she's going to sit there in neutral and start doubting her own attractiveness, and therefore the strength of your relationship, and that way lie th madness.
So suck it up. Forget about how nice it
And once they realize that -- and accept that if they want sex, they and they alone are responsible for initiating and managing their sexual relationship -- then they can relax, safely ignore all of that crap about the politically correct method of coitus, and get his freak on like Nature intended by initiating sex without fear of judgment .
And yes, he might get judged . . . but the next step on the Red Pill journey is ceasing to give unworthy women the power of judgment over you. O nce you realize that to screw them you have to ignore what they say and pay attention to what they do, then what they say even about you gets a lot less credibility.
Case in point: college girl I knew absolutely hated the whole macho Alpha image thing with a passion, to the point where she would confront jocks and d-bags in the college cafeteria about their alleged douchebaggery and lack of respect for women by these oversexed walking phalluses . . . and then at the end of the semester she was the FB of three dudes on the wrestling team who could care less what she thought about them. It wasn't her opinion that they were trying to get into.
So the best thing a dude can do is suck it up. Accept the fact that despite what our popular culture might be saying, in fact the female sex drive tends to be reactive, not proactive, and that you will have to put forth more effort than you'd probably like if you want to improve your sex life. Deal with it.
Because if you wait for your reactive-desire wife or girlfriend to suddenly develop spontaneous desire, you're going to be there for a while. With blue balls. You have to step up and aggressively pursue a consistent strategy of seduction and pursuit or you're locked in Blue Pill Betahood until the divorce.
It's possible to be sexually proactive and not be a douchebag. Indeed, a lot of happily married couples with long histories figure out ways to do just that, and end up enjoying a long and lusty sex life. The ideal Red Pill goal is to get to a place where your ability to initiate gets distilled down to a comfortable, easy-to-recognize signal that immediately dampens panties.
That's the beauty of Married Game, and the difference between it and Dating Game. In Dating Game, the goal is to establish a relationship that leads to sex with the least amount of effort and expenditure of resources as possible. Married Game's goal is to establish a pattern of sexual behavior in a relationship that encourages an interpersonal intimacy in which sex is not "if" but "when", with the least amount of effort and expenditure of resources as possible. In Dating Game you're hunting wild pussy. In Married Game, you have domesticated pussy available. But if you don't husband it properly by consistently and aggressively initiating sex with your woman (paying particular attention to her menstrual cycle) and giving her the opportunity to react favorably , then no matter how well the initial domestication went, you're going to have problems on your hands and more porn on your computer.
It can be hard. Once you take the Red Pill, and understand the realities of the situation instead of focusing on some theoretical ideal of sexual equality your relationship is supposed to measure up to, then you can accept the idea that initiating sex is your responsibility as a man, not your (plural) responsibility as a couple. If her sexuality is reactive, and you aren't being proactive, then she's going to sit there in neutral and start doubting her own attractiveness, and therefore the strength of your relationship, and that way lie th madness.
So suck it up. Forget about how nice it
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