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holding onto her, slip the other hand between your bodies to stimulate her clitoris.
Try coordinating your breathing in this position. Inhale together, then exhale together. Then try inhaling as she exhales, and vice versa.
To penetrate her vaginally and anally at the same time, you can wear a strap-on dildo harness designed specifically for it (such as the Double Penetration Harness by Sportsheets).
Getting It Good
Depending on the curve of his penis, you may want to experiment with moving your hips forward or back to get the best angle.
Have him hold your arms and slowly lean back to see what different sensations this creates.
In Tantric sex, some people who use the Yab-Yum position for vaginal intercourse concentrate on an entirely still way of lovemaking, where a woman squeezes her PC muscles around a man’s penis without any other thrusting or rocking. This technique can be adapted for anal sex: With his penis inside your ass, have him stay completely still as you slowly expand and contract your sphincter muscles around him.
You can use your hand or a vibrator to stimulate your clitoris in this position.
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History Lesson
“Yab-Yum” is Tibetan and translates as “father-mother.” In Tantric sex, it’s
considered an ideal position because the couple’s chakras are aligned,
making it easy for them to build and share ecstatic sexual energy.
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Bend Over Boyfriend Tips:
This position works best when the woman can support her partner
in her lap comfortably. The woman can adjust the strap-on harness
to get an ideal angle for the dildo.
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LAP DANCE
The man sits on a chair, couch, or ottoman and his partner straddles him backwards (facing away from him). He keeps his legs apart and she sits between his legs with her legs together. This can also be done on the edge of a bed, but it’s best if both partners’ feet can easily touch the ground. The closer you are to the floor, the easier it will be for her to get full range of motion. This is a good position for couples where the woman is much smaller than the man.
PROS
This position has many of the benefits of Reverse Cowgirl—she’s in control of the action and dictates the depth and angle of penetration—along with some additional pluses. It’s great for women who like rear-entry positions but don’t like Doggie Style because they don’t want a lot of very hard thrusting. It’s a good position to achieve indirect G-spot stimulation through anal penetration. Partners are closer to each other than in Reverse Cowgirl, facilitating more skin-to-skin contact and a better opportunity for communication. It’s also much easier for him to reach around to play with her breasts and stimulate her clitoris. Any size vibrator, including a large wand-style one such as the Magic Wand, is easy to use in this position. Lap Dance works well if he has limited strength or mobility—or simply wants to sit back and let her drive. This is a great choice for a quickie, a romp in a semi-public place (wear a skirt with no panties!), or sex in a cramped space such as a car or bathroom stall.
CONS
He needs to be able to support her weight on him comfortably and she needs to be fit and strong since she does most of the work. If she’s on her tippy-toes, she needs to use her thigh and leg muscles to do most of the work, which some women won’t be able to sustain for very long. Both partners have limited movement, so deep or vigorous thrusting isn’t what this position is for; moreover, neither partner may be able to orgasm this way. For a sitting position, it may still feel too anonymous for some, and they may like The Chairman better.
TRY THESE VARIATIONS!
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Giving It Good
Take advantage of her many erogenous zones: Kiss her neck, nibble or suck on her ears, hold her hair.
Feel shy about talking dirty to her? Practice your naughty dialogue by whispering it in her ear.
Hold onto her waist and bounce her up and down on you.
Let
Try coordinating your breathing in this position. Inhale together, then exhale together. Then try inhaling as she exhales, and vice versa.
To penetrate her vaginally and anally at the same time, you can wear a strap-on dildo harness designed specifically for it (such as the Double Penetration Harness by Sportsheets).
Getting It Good
Depending on the curve of his penis, you may want to experiment with moving your hips forward or back to get the best angle.
Have him hold your arms and slowly lean back to see what different sensations this creates.
In Tantric sex, some people who use the Yab-Yum position for vaginal intercourse concentrate on an entirely still way of lovemaking, where a woman squeezes her PC muscles around a man’s penis without any other thrusting or rocking. This technique can be adapted for anal sex: With his penis inside your ass, have him stay completely still as you slowly expand and contract your sphincter muscles around him.
You can use your hand or a vibrator to stimulate your clitoris in this position.
----
----
History Lesson
“Yab-Yum” is Tibetan and translates as “father-mother.” In Tantric sex, it’s
considered an ideal position because the couple’s chakras are aligned,
making it easy for them to build and share ecstatic sexual energy.
----
----
Bend Over Boyfriend Tips:
This position works best when the woman can support her partner
in her lap comfortably. The woman can adjust the strap-on harness
to get an ideal angle for the dildo.
----
LAP DANCE
The man sits on a chair, couch, or ottoman and his partner straddles him backwards (facing away from him). He keeps his legs apart and she sits between his legs with her legs together. This can also be done on the edge of a bed, but it’s best if both partners’ feet can easily touch the ground. The closer you are to the floor, the easier it will be for her to get full range of motion. This is a good position for couples where the woman is much smaller than the man.
PROS
This position has many of the benefits of Reverse Cowgirl—she’s in control of the action and dictates the depth and angle of penetration—along with some additional pluses. It’s great for women who like rear-entry positions but don’t like Doggie Style because they don’t want a lot of very hard thrusting. It’s a good position to achieve indirect G-spot stimulation through anal penetration. Partners are closer to each other than in Reverse Cowgirl, facilitating more skin-to-skin contact and a better opportunity for communication. It’s also much easier for him to reach around to play with her breasts and stimulate her clitoris. Any size vibrator, including a large wand-style one such as the Magic Wand, is easy to use in this position. Lap Dance works well if he has limited strength or mobility—or simply wants to sit back and let her drive. This is a great choice for a quickie, a romp in a semi-public place (wear a skirt with no panties!), or sex in a cramped space such as a car or bathroom stall.
CONS
He needs to be able to support her weight on him comfortably and she needs to be fit and strong since she does most of the work. If she’s on her tippy-toes, she needs to use her thigh and leg muscles to do most of the work, which some women won’t be able to sustain for very long. Both partners have limited movement, so deep or vigorous thrusting isn’t what this position is for; moreover, neither partner may be able to orgasm this way. For a sitting position, it may still feel too anonymous for some, and they may like The Chairman better.
TRY THESE VARIATIONS!
----
Giving It Good
Take advantage of her many erogenous zones: Kiss her neck, nibble or suck on her ears, hold her hair.
Feel shy about talking dirty to her? Practice your naughty dialogue by whispering it in her ear.
Hold onto her waist and bounce her up and down on you.
Let
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