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don’t know.”
“Why don’t you know?”
“He never said.”
“Never?”
“My father is not a … demonstrative man.”
“And did that bother you, Cathy?”
Cathy lifted her eyebrows. “Honestly?”
“Of course.”
“Yes, it bothered me a lot.” She was trying to remain calm, but emotion was creeping into her voice. “It bothered me an awful lot. No matter what I did, he never praised it. If I’d bring home a report card with five As and a B, all he’d talk about was the B. He never came to see me perform in the school band. Even to this day, he thinks my ceramics are silly. And he never…”
“Never what?”
“Nothing.”
“Please, Cathy, tell me what you’re thinking.” “He never once said he loved me. He even signed birthday cards — cards that my mother had picked out for him — ‘Dad.’ Not ‘Love, Dad’ — but just ‘Dad.’ ”
“I’m sorry,” said Danita.
“I tried to make him happy. Tried to make him proud of me. But no matter what I did, it was like I wasn’t there.”
“Have you ever discussed this with your father?”
Cathy made a noise in her throat. “I’ve never discussed
anything
with my father.”
“I’m sure he didn’t mean to hurt you.”
“But he
did
hurt me. And now I’ve hurt Peter.”
Danita nodded. “You said that you didn’t believe anyone could love you unconditionally.”
Cathy nodded.
“Is that because you felt your father never loved you?”
“I guess.”
“But you think Peter loves you a lot?”
“If you knew him, you wouldn’t have to ask. People are always saying how much he loves me, how obvious it is.”
“Does Peter tell you he loves you?”
“Oh, yes. Not every day of course, but often.”
Danita leaned back in her chair. “Perhaps your problems with Peter are related to your problems with your father. Down deep, perhaps you felt that no man could love you because your father had eroded your self-esteem. When you found a man who did love you, you couldn’t believe it, and you tried — and are still trying — to push him away.”
Cathy was immobile.
“It’s a common enough scenario, I’m afraid. Low self-esteem has always been a big problem among women, even today.”
Still immobile, except for chewing her lower lip.
“You have to realize that you are not worthless, Cathy. You have to recognize the value in yourself, see in yourself all the wonderful qualities Peter sees in you. Peter doesn’t put you down, does he?”
“No. Never. As I said, he’s very supportive.”
“Sorry to have to ask again. It’s just that women often end up marrying men who are like their fathers, just as men often end up marrying women who are like their mothers. So Peter isn’t like your father?”
“No. No, not in the least. But, then, Peter pursued me. I don’t know what kind of man I was looking for. I don’t even know if I was looking at all. I think — I think I just wanted to be left alone.”
“What about the man you had the affair with? Was he the kind of man you were looking for?”
Cathy snorted. “No.”
“You weren’t attracted to him?”
“Oh, Hans was cute, in a chubby way. And then was something disarming about his smile. But I didn’t go after him.”
“Did he treat you well?”
“He was a smooth talker, but you could tell it was all just talk.”
“And yet it worked.”
Cathy sighed. “He was persistent.”
“Did this Hans remind you of your father?”
“No, of course not,” Cathy said immediately, but then she paused. “Well, I suppose they have some things in common. Peter would say they’re both dumb jocks.”
“And was Hans good to you during your relationship?”
“He was terrible to me. He’d ignore me for weeks on end, while he was presumably involved with someone else.”
“But when he came back to you, you’d respond.”
She sighed. “I know it was stupid.”
“No one is judging you, Cathy. I just want to understand what went on. Why did you keep
“Why don’t you know?”
“He never said.”
“Never?”
“My father is not a … demonstrative man.”
“And did that bother you, Cathy?”
Cathy lifted her eyebrows. “Honestly?”
“Of course.”
“Yes, it bothered me a lot.” She was trying to remain calm, but emotion was creeping into her voice. “It bothered me an awful lot. No matter what I did, he never praised it. If I’d bring home a report card with five As and a B, all he’d talk about was the B. He never came to see me perform in the school band. Even to this day, he thinks my ceramics are silly. And he never…”
“Never what?”
“Nothing.”
“Please, Cathy, tell me what you’re thinking.” “He never once said he loved me. He even signed birthday cards — cards that my mother had picked out for him — ‘Dad.’ Not ‘Love, Dad’ — but just ‘Dad.’ ”
“I’m sorry,” said Danita.
“I tried to make him happy. Tried to make him proud of me. But no matter what I did, it was like I wasn’t there.”
“Have you ever discussed this with your father?”
Cathy made a noise in her throat. “I’ve never discussed
anything
with my father.”
“I’m sure he didn’t mean to hurt you.”
“But he
did
hurt me. And now I’ve hurt Peter.”
Danita nodded. “You said that you didn’t believe anyone could love you unconditionally.”
Cathy nodded.
“Is that because you felt your father never loved you?”
“I guess.”
“But you think Peter loves you a lot?”
“If you knew him, you wouldn’t have to ask. People are always saying how much he loves me, how obvious it is.”
“Does Peter tell you he loves you?”
“Oh, yes. Not every day of course, but often.”
Danita leaned back in her chair. “Perhaps your problems with Peter are related to your problems with your father. Down deep, perhaps you felt that no man could love you because your father had eroded your self-esteem. When you found a man who did love you, you couldn’t believe it, and you tried — and are still trying — to push him away.”
Cathy was immobile.
“It’s a common enough scenario, I’m afraid. Low self-esteem has always been a big problem among women, even today.”
Still immobile, except for chewing her lower lip.
“You have to realize that you are not worthless, Cathy. You have to recognize the value in yourself, see in yourself all the wonderful qualities Peter sees in you. Peter doesn’t put you down, does he?”
“No. Never. As I said, he’s very supportive.”
“Sorry to have to ask again. It’s just that women often end up marrying men who are like their fathers, just as men often end up marrying women who are like their mothers. So Peter isn’t like your father?”
“No. No, not in the least. But, then, Peter pursued me. I don’t know what kind of man I was looking for. I don’t even know if I was looking at all. I think — I think I just wanted to be left alone.”
“What about the man you had the affair with? Was he the kind of man you were looking for?”
Cathy snorted. “No.”
“You weren’t attracted to him?”
“Oh, Hans was cute, in a chubby way. And then was something disarming about his smile. But I didn’t go after him.”
“Did he treat you well?”
“He was a smooth talker, but you could tell it was all just talk.”
“And yet it worked.”
Cathy sighed. “He was persistent.”
“Did this Hans remind you of your father?”
“No, of course not,” Cathy said immediately, but then she paused. “Well, I suppose they have some things in common. Peter would say they’re both dumb jocks.”
“And was Hans good to you during your relationship?”
“He was terrible to me. He’d ignore me for weeks on end, while he was presumably involved with someone else.”
“But when he came back to you, you’d respond.”
She sighed. “I know it was stupid.”
“No one is judging you, Cathy. I just want to understand what went on. Why did you keep
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