âAnd see how Iâve turned out?â
Emily curled her upper lip. âExactly. See what I mean?â
I gave her a mock stern look.
She grinned. âIâm just
so
glad weâre not that religious, Mum. Itâd be awful.â
âI think youâre generalising, Em. Faith can be a positive thing. And Muslims are no different to anyone else. All religions have their extremists but on the whole people just want get on with their lives and do the best they can, donât they?â
She looked doubtful. âI donât see how anyone can be happy with all those rules. I bet thatâs why Zadie ran away. Her parents were wa-a-ay too strict.â
âWe donât know that at all,â I said, shaking the pillows and moving the duvet so I could get on with making up the bed. âWe hardly know anything about them.â But what Emily had said really got me thinking. So many questions ran through my mind. Had Zadie rebelled against her faith, or would she still need a special area for prayers? And what about visiting the mosque? I wondered as I manoeuvred the pillows into freshly washed cases. If Zadie wanted to worship in a particular way, then, as a foster carer, I had to honour her beliefs and provide her with whatever she needed to maintain her faith.
Still, whatever hurdles we had to get over, a feeling of excitement ran through me. It wasnât unusual for me to feel apprehensive before meeting a new, temporary member of the family. If I was to take the best care I could of Zadie then there was certainly a lot I had to learn. I got the sense that this placement would open my eyes to a way of life very different to my own but I was looking forward to the challenge. I resolved to do a bit of research on Google if I had time before Zadie arrived. But preparing the room had to be a priority.
Both Emily and I loved the build-up of getting everything ready, and making the childâs own special place look welcoming was a practical way of doing something positive for them before theyâd even arrived. Usually I would make an effort to find out what interested the child, tailoring the room so that it was unique to them, although often that wasnât possible.
Several years earlier I had been expecting a boy of 10 who was coming into care as an emergency. During the initial phone call with his social worker, she had mentioned that Chester had a passion for motorbikes. With an hour to spare before he arrived I dashed to the shops and bought some models to put on the shelf in his room. When I took him up to show him where heâd be sleeping he got emotional, burying his face in his sleeve. I assumed he was upset because he was missing home so I left him upstairs to have a few words with his social worker. When she came down she told me that Chester was overcome at the sight of the motorbikes. He told me later, âIt was the nicest thing anyone ever done for me, Rosie.â
I think Chester was moved more by the fact that I had taken the time to think about what might be important to him rather than the items themselves. It really is amazing how something so seemingly insignificant can mean so much to someone when they come from a place where kind gestures are in short supply. Since then Iâve always tried to bear Chesterâs reaction in mind.
When the room was ready I went downstairs and logged on to the computer to see what I could find out about Islam. My mind strayed to a hot day months earlier when I went to watch one of Jamieâs cricket matches. I remembered being surprised to see that some of the schoolâs star cricketers were watching the match from the sidelines. One of the parents told me that some of the boys werenât allowed to join in as it was Ramadan and they couldnât drink anything, not even water. Even medicine wasnât permitted. Before that day I had assumed that fasting during the month of Ramadan meant not eating solid food. I
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