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Authors: Georgia Ivey Green
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for him, there would be no one to help you become a stronger, more assertive woman. And that should be one of your personal goals.
When I first took over as Mistress to my husband, having been his slave for a few years, I had some real confidence issues. I didn't know how to give orders, how to make him comply with those orders, and what to do about it when he didn't. I consulted a woman I knew who had been a Femdom for years. She told me what I needed to do to build my confidence and I am going to pass that information on to you.
Start out with something easy. Tell him that he is expected to open doors for you. Any time you are together, he should open any door you come to, including the car door. Now that he has been told, don't remind him, simply wait until he figures it our for himself. For example, when I first started this plan, I would walk up to a door, whenever we came to one, and stand next to it near the edge that opened. I would not move until he came and opened it for me. I did the same with the car door. I always made him drive, as a chauffeur. If he made the mistake of getting into the car without opening my door, I would simply stand there until he realized his mistake. It didn't take long before I gained a little confidence. Once he understood the rule, I would spank him with three smacks on his posterior any time he made me wait for him to remember his duty.
After that, I started to feel more comfortable giving him orders to do chores around the house. I would put them to him more or less as a suggestion. For example, I might say, “The living room carpet needs to be vacuumed sometime today.” If he didn't pick up on the hint and vacuum the carpet, I would scold him that evening while there was still time for him to do it. If he still didn't do it, I would make him explain why and then make him suggest a punishment.
As time went by, I grew more and more confident and he became more and more compliant and respectful. I no longer ask him what he thinks would be an appropriate punishment. I know what to do and I do it without hesitation. It worked for me, and I am sure it will do the same for you.
Knowing what your partner wants (or expects) from you can go a long way toward helping you overcome any fear or guilt you may have concerning your new role. Review the chapter on communication to help you help yourself. Remember, there are two of you in this together. Odds are, he is also struggling with a new role and he is looking to you for guidance. So together, you can make things work. Talk, talk, talk!
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Chapter 10: Chastity
Male chastity is not exactly a new idea. It has been around at least as far back as the Middle Ages, possibly a great deal longer than that. There are stories of eunuchs (castrated men) used by Turkish sultans to guard their many wives and concubines. Instead of using a chastity device, they simply used the ultimate in male chastity. However, we are more civilized today.
Over the past twenty years or so, many devices have been invented to keep a man from “straying.” Male chastity has grown in popularity in recent years to the point where these devices are now showing up in your local sex shop and in just about every on-line sex toy store on the Internet. In fact, it has become so common place these days that many people have become more open about their use. That is to say, many men no longer hide the fact they wear such a device.
The question is, do you need (or even want) to use chastity in your FLR, or can your partner be trusted to keep his willy in his pants where it belongs? Actually, there are many reasons why a couple might choose to use a male chastity device, other than fidelity. Some woman want that feeling the power and control they get when they snap that lock shut. Some men, love the feeling of submission they get from that very same action. Then there is the question of orgasm control. If you intend to control when your partner is allowed
When I first took over as Mistress to my husband, having been his slave for a few years, I had some real confidence issues. I didn't know how to give orders, how to make him comply with those orders, and what to do about it when he didn't. I consulted a woman I knew who had been a Femdom for years. She told me what I needed to do to build my confidence and I am going to pass that information on to you.
Start out with something easy. Tell him that he is expected to open doors for you. Any time you are together, he should open any door you come to, including the car door. Now that he has been told, don't remind him, simply wait until he figures it our for himself. For example, when I first started this plan, I would walk up to a door, whenever we came to one, and stand next to it near the edge that opened. I would not move until he came and opened it for me. I did the same with the car door. I always made him drive, as a chauffeur. If he made the mistake of getting into the car without opening my door, I would simply stand there until he realized his mistake. It didn't take long before I gained a little confidence. Once he understood the rule, I would spank him with three smacks on his posterior any time he made me wait for him to remember his duty.
After that, I started to feel more comfortable giving him orders to do chores around the house. I would put them to him more or less as a suggestion. For example, I might say, “The living room carpet needs to be vacuumed sometime today.” If he didn't pick up on the hint and vacuum the carpet, I would scold him that evening while there was still time for him to do it. If he still didn't do it, I would make him explain why and then make him suggest a punishment.
As time went by, I grew more and more confident and he became more and more compliant and respectful. I no longer ask him what he thinks would be an appropriate punishment. I know what to do and I do it without hesitation. It worked for me, and I am sure it will do the same for you.
Knowing what your partner wants (or expects) from you can go a long way toward helping you overcome any fear or guilt you may have concerning your new role. Review the chapter on communication to help you help yourself. Remember, there are two of you in this together. Odds are, he is also struggling with a new role and he is looking to you for guidance. So together, you can make things work. Talk, talk, talk!
~ ~ ~
Chapter 10: Chastity
Male chastity is not exactly a new idea. It has been around at least as far back as the Middle Ages, possibly a great deal longer than that. There are stories of eunuchs (castrated men) used by Turkish sultans to guard their many wives and concubines. Instead of using a chastity device, they simply used the ultimate in male chastity. However, we are more civilized today.
Over the past twenty years or so, many devices have been invented to keep a man from “straying.” Male chastity has grown in popularity in recent years to the point where these devices are now showing up in your local sex shop and in just about every on-line sex toy store on the Internet. In fact, it has become so common place these days that many people have become more open about their use. That is to say, many men no longer hide the fact they wear such a device.
The question is, do you need (or even want) to use chastity in your FLR, or can your partner be trusted to keep his willy in his pants where it belongs? Actually, there are many reasons why a couple might choose to use a male chastity device, other than fidelity. Some woman want that feeling the power and control they get when they snap that lock shut. Some men, love the feeling of submission they get from that very same action. Then there is the question of orgasm control. If you intend to control when your partner is allowed
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