can. “Who would you ban from taking communion?” Who would you ban from hearing the gospel? “Who can preside over communion?” Who can preach the gospel? The answer to one is the answer to the other, which is to say any believer can. Do you see? Religion likes to make things complicated but the gospel, including communion, is simple. Religion likes to judge and draw lines. “You’re in, you’re out. You’re clean, you’re unclean. You can take communion, you can’t take communion.” But grace is inclusive. Jesus ate with anyone who would eat with him. He even broke bread with Judas. “But what about children taking communion?” Some churches make it a habit to keep small children from the table because they “don’t understand.” I don’t think this is a wise practice for it’s motivated by fear rather than love. It sends the message that all are not welcome and God is scary. This is not a message for our children, or anyone, to hear. In our house we take communion with our young children nearly every Sunday. For us it’s an opportunity to remember Jesus, and we partake with joy and thanksgiving. Our only requirement for the children is that they need to be old enough to eat the crackers!
12. An Open Letter to Hot-Blooded Young Men
Grace attracts sinners. Since I am someone who preaches grace, I get a lot of correspondence from sinning Christians. Few are looking for help in overcoming sin; many of them are fishing for an assurance that God will continue to love them despite their bad behavior. More often than not, these messages come from young men who are living as though they were married, even though they are not. Since I grow weary of being an agony aunt for men who should know better, this article is addressed to those of you who are wrestling with sin, but particularly to hot-blooded young males. Here are my responses to five commonly asked questions:
1. Will God love me if I keep sinning?
Yes, absolutely! I know this is not what religion has told you, but you need to know that God’s love for you is unrelated to your behavior, good or bad. There are many variables in life but God’s love is the one constant you can bank on. You can be certain that he loves you. A better question to ask is, do you know and enjoy his love? The prodigal’s father loved him constantly but the prodigal did not experience his love for as long as his attention was elsewhere. Every one of us has needs and these needs are designed to lead us to Jesus (see Philippians 4:19). If you’re not getting your needs met in Christ, you will make inferior choices — and this is where the trouble starts.
2. Does God’s grace mean I can continue to live in sin?
No. Grace brings freedom and that includes the freedom to make poor choices, but if you use your freedom to enslave yourself to sin, then you have missed the point of grace. A Christian who runs after sin is like a prisoner who has been released into the custody of a gracious king, who then uses his freedom to re-offend and do all the things that got him imprisoned in the first place. Now our King is extremely gracious; he won’t send you back to prison, but you may send yourself there. The King of kings didn’t give his life as your ransom so you could run back to Egypt. That’s the wrong direction. Egypt is history. We’ve got places to go and grace is going to take us there. Move on to the Promised Land of his love for that is where life really begins.
3. Will I lose my salvation if I choose to keep sinning?
No. Jesus is your salvation and the Holy Spirit is your eternal guarantee (2 Corinthians 1:22). If sinning caused us to lose our salvation, then heaven would be empty. But the question troubles me. Religion has got us so obsessed with making heaven and avoiding hell that we’ve put life on hold. The earth isn’t a waiting room for eternity. This is the place where real life happens (see John