speed dating, singlesâ nights, murder mystery nights which were really cop-off junkets, none of it. I really wasnât sure it was an arena I wanted to enter. I was taking my life in my hands and Iâd probably trip over spectacularly and drop it. Right down Gagaâs bacon-y cleavage, probably.
I re-swivelled the waistband of my skirt â this skirt always twizzled round â and tried to hold my stomach in, to no avail. Sam was often suggesting fitness DVDs to me; she was currently extolling the virtues of some American woman called Kimberley Lake-Payne and her âamazingâ 60 Day T&A Blast DVD, as well as Cardio Power , Storm-Ripped Body Pump and Tummy Shrink Showdown . Did I want to borrow any of them? I always declined. Maybe one day I would stop eating so much chocolate and start shaking my sizeable booty in Lycra, on some kind of fitness drive, but I liked to eat. I enjoyed not counting calories or working out.
âLast time I came to one of these I burnt six hundred calories on the dancefloor,â pronounced Sam. âI was wearing my Fitbit, inside my bra.â
âYouâve been to speed dating before? You never said.â
âNo, well, it wasnât a huge success. It was when I first split with Graham.â
âDid you meet anyone?â
âSadly, yes, a bloke I dated for two months. Jacob â he was really nice, at first. Except it turned out he still lived with his mum andâ worse â that he was Chief Swords Person in medieval re-enactment thingies in Richmond Park, every Sunday. The mum situation I could have lived with â if you excuse the pun â but it was the muddy bayonet in the backpack which was the deal-breaker.â
âI bet it was!â I said. âYou could have told us. It would have given us hours of fun.â
Sam shrugged. âIt wasnât my finest hour. Iâm hoping for better tonight.â
âSo, what happens after we register?â I said, twizzling my waistband again. âDo we get name badges? I donât want a hole pricked in this blouse.â
âNo, we donât want any pricks!â laughed Sam, and the girl in front of us turned round and smiled wryly.
âGood luck with that,â she said.
It didnât exactly restore any confidence. I had a sudden desire to go home and put my jammies on. Sam must have read my thoughts.
âCome on, itâll be fine. There are some nice men out there, there has to be! Sometimes theyâre right under your nose.â
I caught the eye of the other Michael Jackson â complete with red leather Thriller jacket, white socks and black slip-on shoes â and he gave me a wrinkly wink. I really wasnât sure about that.
After weâd registered, and Iâd got four whacking great holes in my blouse courtesy of the girl on the desk who might want to invest in some reading glasses, we stood among the expectant crowd waiting to be told what to do. Sam ran through the list of questions she had for prospective suitors, written in the Notes section of her phone. They included: âWhat do you like doing at the weekends?â; âWhat is your view on the healing power of crystals?â; âDo you know how to operate a washing machine?â and âHave you ever, or will you ever, own a status dog?â
âWhat on earth is a status dog?â I asked.
âA scary dog. You know, like a bulldog or something. The ones men walk down the street with, in order to look hard. It would be a deal-breaker. I donât like dogs much as it is.â
I laughed. âRight. Okay.â
âYou have to break down your criteria,â said Sam. âI know you think Iâm away with the fairies half the time, but I can also be completely practical when it comes to men.â
âI know you can,â I said. Sam had been known to come up with pie charts detailing her compatibility with the men she was dating.
What were my