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has called twice today. What you cant bother with him either.”
    On the morning of May 9 :
“One night your textgng I love you durin the day you wont talk. Get off the crap your on its makin you passive aggressive and I dont need the abuse.”
    Three hours later, the subject was Nancy’s charge that Chris had not made himself available to his two kids with Martina, who were visiting from Canada:
“Your big claim ask anyone you work with how you are, know one knows what goes on behind closed doors. and the excuses about not being able to see your kids is your failure in putting no effort to them. paying out lots of money sending for them twice a year is a far cry for being a Dad. you need to get it together. I will not except this steroid enduced rollercoaster ride of emotional abuse. ignoring the problem or running away isnt going to help you face it you need professional and only if your fully honest about all of it.”
    That afternoon:
“You don’t get it I do not except your emotional and verbal abuse. you want to talk to me your gonna have to put more effort into it than this.”
    The next day:
“You are a grown man with three kids set the example are you trying to say this is how you grew up watching your dad call your mom names and make her cry? No then what gives you the right! grow up for mighty sakes get off the stuff its obvious im probably not the only one who can see and we both know the [wwe] wellness program is a joke.”
    On the morning of May 12 :
“I tried to put an end to this your the one who is draging it out its stupid you could have been home last your doing.”
    That afternoon:
“Daniel has been calling you you need to call him and me too this has gone on long enough i tried to talk to you you could have been at home yesterday.”
    That night:
“If you havent figure daniel knows how to dial your cell by pushing phonebook and scrolling to ‘chris cell’ hes mad at me cause you havent called be an adult and call. It wont take much more for him to realize its not me hes mad at hes not a baby any more and a message isnt going to be enough.”
    May 22 , ex-wife and in-law problems:
“The german christmas ornament would not have bothered me had
[Martina]
not kept asking about it especially when she kept asking about it on my birthday, she tried to ignore me on Mothers Day I called back twice. So when your parents do come I will confront your mom she has put me in the middle this time. I’ll handle it. Ten years now, havent been here and now still cant come when the Kids are together. My folks are coming just for the Kids summer holiday. Effort. second on my list to Help. We asked when I had the big surgery. Two years ago. It’s enough already. No more excuses just be real!”
    On May 26 , Nancy seemed to be mocking Chris’s complaint that his hard work was not appreciated by his dependents:
“Money orders every month cant give hugs. you should keep working wouldnt want the ex to miss another four weeks paid while you send for your annual Im a great father summer holiday!”
And:
“What’s sixty thousand times ten? six hundred thousand. boy, I feel sorry for you, all that money, time and effort and still no thank you, no thanks for the trips every year, twice, three times at least a year. I wonder does anyone really know when they go to bed at night or eat a meal or wear the clothes they put on how tired you are at the end week or how very very hard it is to work for six hundred thousand. nope, its much easier to have it handed to you with four weeks paid holiday. yuo. no idea what you’ve lost. no need to worry Ill make sure your sacrifices are well know.”
    In another text later that day, Nancy zeroed in on the apparent heart of the matter: Chris’s refusal to change the beneficiaries on an old $ 250 , 000 life insurance policy, which still listed as beneficiaries Martina and their