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with that person, even though mentally, the person wills to be free from the other party.
There is a union that occurs when two individuals are sexually united;, as their bodies merge, so also, to some degree, do their souls merge. The result is a union, albeit temporary. However, the fruit of that union can be relatively permanent. For instance, if human conception occurs, a child will be the result: a visible, tangible, lifetime, memorial expression of the union that occurred. There is also an invisible memorial, an expression of that union in the form of a sexual soul-tie, which will likewise last a lifetime, or until it is recognized, its hold broken, and its residue expelled.
A child is a memorial of the relationship that exists between the parents. The soul-tie is a memorial of the sin (lust) that existed between the unmarried couple. Both the child and the soul-tie serve as reminders to the couples of their relationship.
The righteous soul-ties that God designed and intended for marriage can be corrupted into unrighteous soul-ties, as can happen when marriages break up and divorce results. As in most soul-ties formed from illicit sexual union, the love expressed usually turns to abject and dangerous hate when the tie is broken. Such is found also in the story of King David’s daughter Tamar, which provides another Scriptural example of a soul-tie formed in fornication and immorality.
And when she had brought them unto him to eat, he took hold of her, and said unto her, Come lie with me, my sister. And she answered him, Nay, my brother, do not force me; for no such thing ought to be done in Israel: do not thou this folly. And I, whither shall I cause my shame to go? and as for thee, thou shalt be as one of the fools in Israel. Now therefore, I pray thee, speak unto the king; for he will not withhold me from thee. Howbeit he would not hearken unto her voice: but, being stronger than she, forced her, and lay with her. Then Amnon hated her exceedingly; so that the hatred wherewith he hated her was greater than the love wherewith he had loved her . And Amnon said unto her, Arise, be gone. And she said unto him, There is no cause: this evil in sending me away is greater than the other that thou didst unto me. But he would not hearken unto her.
2 Sam. 13:11–16
Tamar points out to Amnon that the evil of sending her away, rejecting her, was worse than his original sin of forcing her into sexual union. The commentary of the Word of God itself is enlightening in this case. It points out that the resulting hatred of Amnon was greater than the initial love which caused him to sin in the first place, a clear example of love turned into hate. This condition is not uncommon in our day, and is often observed both in divorces, and the breakup of non-marital relationships. The fact that hate exists in these cases is indicative that the soul-tie has not been broken, even if the relationship has. Hate forms its own chain, linking two people.
Witchcraft invariably uses sex to attack and bring down men (and women) of God. I wish it were not the case, but we can all think of cases of nationally known ministers who were caught in sexual snares and scandals which have brought reproach upon the Body of Christ. In my prayer room during deliverance, I have had witches admit to using sex and drugs to lure men under their control. I pray the following condemnation may never be spoken of us.
For the name of God is blasphemed among the Gentiles through you, [lit: “as a result of your actions”]
Rom. 2:24 [Brackets Ours]
It is also obvious that evil spirits seek an opportunity to ensnare vulnerable souls who become entrapped in situations involving fallen men and women, as Proverbs 7 warns:
And behold, a woman comes to meet him, Dressed as a harlot and cunning of heart. With her many persuasions she entices him... Suddenly he follows her… As a bird hastens to the snare , So he does not know that it will cost him his life .
Prov.
There is a union that occurs when two individuals are sexually united;, as their bodies merge, so also, to some degree, do their souls merge. The result is a union, albeit temporary. However, the fruit of that union can be relatively permanent. For instance, if human conception occurs, a child will be the result: a visible, tangible, lifetime, memorial expression of the union that occurred. There is also an invisible memorial, an expression of that union in the form of a sexual soul-tie, which will likewise last a lifetime, or until it is recognized, its hold broken, and its residue expelled.
A child is a memorial of the relationship that exists between the parents. The soul-tie is a memorial of the sin (lust) that existed between the unmarried couple. Both the child and the soul-tie serve as reminders to the couples of their relationship.
The righteous soul-ties that God designed and intended for marriage can be corrupted into unrighteous soul-ties, as can happen when marriages break up and divorce results. As in most soul-ties formed from illicit sexual union, the love expressed usually turns to abject and dangerous hate when the tie is broken. Such is found also in the story of King David’s daughter Tamar, which provides another Scriptural example of a soul-tie formed in fornication and immorality.
And when she had brought them unto him to eat, he took hold of her, and said unto her, Come lie with me, my sister. And she answered him, Nay, my brother, do not force me; for no such thing ought to be done in Israel: do not thou this folly. And I, whither shall I cause my shame to go? and as for thee, thou shalt be as one of the fools in Israel. Now therefore, I pray thee, speak unto the king; for he will not withhold me from thee. Howbeit he would not hearken unto her voice: but, being stronger than she, forced her, and lay with her. Then Amnon hated her exceedingly; so that the hatred wherewith he hated her was greater than the love wherewith he had loved her . And Amnon said unto her, Arise, be gone. And she said unto him, There is no cause: this evil in sending me away is greater than the other that thou didst unto me. But he would not hearken unto her.
2 Sam. 13:11–16
Tamar points out to Amnon that the evil of sending her away, rejecting her, was worse than his original sin of forcing her into sexual union. The commentary of the Word of God itself is enlightening in this case. It points out that the resulting hatred of Amnon was greater than the initial love which caused him to sin in the first place, a clear example of love turned into hate. This condition is not uncommon in our day, and is often observed both in divorces, and the breakup of non-marital relationships. The fact that hate exists in these cases is indicative that the soul-tie has not been broken, even if the relationship has. Hate forms its own chain, linking two people.
Witchcraft invariably uses sex to attack and bring down men (and women) of God. I wish it were not the case, but we can all think of cases of nationally known ministers who were caught in sexual snares and scandals which have brought reproach upon the Body of Christ. In my prayer room during deliverance, I have had witches admit to using sex and drugs to lure men under their control. I pray the following condemnation may never be spoken of us.
For the name of God is blasphemed among the Gentiles through you, [lit: “as a result of your actions”]
Rom. 2:24 [Brackets Ours]
It is also obvious that evil spirits seek an opportunity to ensnare vulnerable souls who become entrapped in situations involving fallen men and women, as Proverbs 7 warns:
And behold, a woman comes to meet him, Dressed as a harlot and cunning of heart. With her many persuasions she entices him... Suddenly he follows her… As a bird hastens to the snare , So he does not know that it will cost him his life .
Prov.
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