would hope obviously, you have a penis which is insanely sensitive and you also have a prostate gland up your bum which feels nice when stimulated. So whether you’re into boys or girls, you should be targeting roughly the same areas.
A FINAL WORD ON VAGINAS:
We talked about how penises look different, yeah? Well so do vaginas. Just as porn would have us believe all penises are rock-hard and about eleven inches long, it also tells us that all vaginas are tiny, hairless and have internal labia minora. They all look different, but all are normal . If you are gonna be funny about what a girl’s vagina and surrounding hair looks like, don’t be surprised if she laughs at your cock. If body parts are making you squeamish, this is another sign that you are probably not quite ready for a sexual relationship.
FOREPLAY
Y ou have to think about sex. It’s not a race to stick your penis in things. Contrary to what you may have heard, there isn’t a contest and you won’t win anything once you do. Take it nice and slow – you’ll get more out of it and so will your partner. Attacking your partner like a sexual ram-raider is unlikely to win you any fans.
Think of it like a super-fancy dinner. Even if the main course was a bit crap, if there was a delicious starter and dessert, you’re less likely to mind. That’s why, if you do lots of different things which feel nice, your partner is likely to go away happy.
This is where foreplay comes in handy. Never go straight to penetration. The whole point of kissing, stroking and touching is that it turns you both on and readies the body for what’s about to happen.
IN WE GO
H aving done lots of nice foreplay it’s time to get going. Let’s break it down into nice, easy parts.
ORAL SEX: Not surprisingly this means ‘do it with your mouth’ and tongue. The clitoris or penis can be stimulated orally and, yep – you guessed it – it FEELS NICE. Watch the teeth, though, NO ONE likes that. If you ejaculate, or cum, in a girl’s mouth, she cannot get pregnant, but there is a risk of sexually transmitted infection. (See ‘STIs’ in chapter five.)
Stimulation of the penis is achieved by moving the mouth and tongue up and down the shaft, allowing pressure to build. The word ‘blow-job’ is misleading in that no blowing occurs – it’s more of a sucking motion. A woman’s clitoris and the surrounding area can be licked, sucked and kissed, too.
DIGITAL STIMULATION: Sometimes it’s quicker and less messy to just do ‘handies’. Remember it’s her clit you’re looking for, not just the hole. You and your partner can also stimulate each other by rubbing and stroking your penis. Never apologise for lending a hand, either, sometimes you need a hand to cum and sometimes so does your partner. In fact while we’re on the subject … Sex doesn’t always finish with cumming or an orgasm. It’s nice if it does, but if you or your partner don’t cum it’s not the end of the world and it’s nothing to be ashamed of or worried about. This is another porn hangover – in porn everyone ALWAYS cums. In fact, female porn stars often start screaming with pleasure if a man breathes near them. In real life, not so much.
VAGINAL SEX: This is the one you need to do if you want to make a baby. You can’t just plug it in like an iPod and expect the magic to happen. The penis must be rubbed in and out until ejaculation. It’s the friction that does the trick. Your partner can also achieve orgasm through stimulation of the clitoris and arguably the G-spot. During sex, the vagina cleverly lubricates itself to make sexual intercourse easier for both of you.
Contrary to the sex-ed films you might have seen in school, there are lots of different ways of doing vaginal sex. Standing up, sat down, lying down, on the side, her on top, you on top, you on your head … You get the picture. TALK ABOUT IT. What position feels best for you? What position feels best for her? Despite what porn has
A FINAL WORD ON VAGINAS:
We talked about how penises look different, yeah? Well so do vaginas. Just as porn would have us believe all penises are rock-hard and about eleven inches long, it also tells us that all vaginas are tiny, hairless and have internal labia minora. They all look different, but all are normal . If you are gonna be funny about what a girl’s vagina and surrounding hair looks like, don’t be surprised if she laughs at your cock. If body parts are making you squeamish, this is another sign that you are probably not quite ready for a sexual relationship.
FOREPLAY
Y ou have to think about sex. It’s not a race to stick your penis in things. Contrary to what you may have heard, there isn’t a contest and you won’t win anything once you do. Take it nice and slow – you’ll get more out of it and so will your partner. Attacking your partner like a sexual ram-raider is unlikely to win you any fans.
Think of it like a super-fancy dinner. Even if the main course was a bit crap, if there was a delicious starter and dessert, you’re less likely to mind. That’s why, if you do lots of different things which feel nice, your partner is likely to go away happy.
This is where foreplay comes in handy. Never go straight to penetration. The whole point of kissing, stroking and touching is that it turns you both on and readies the body for what’s about to happen.
IN WE GO
H aving done lots of nice foreplay it’s time to get going. Let’s break it down into nice, easy parts.
ORAL SEX: Not surprisingly this means ‘do it with your mouth’ and tongue. The clitoris or penis can be stimulated orally and, yep – you guessed it – it FEELS NICE. Watch the teeth, though, NO ONE likes that. If you ejaculate, or cum, in a girl’s mouth, she cannot get pregnant, but there is a risk of sexually transmitted infection. (See ‘STIs’ in chapter five.)
Stimulation of the penis is achieved by moving the mouth and tongue up and down the shaft, allowing pressure to build. The word ‘blow-job’ is misleading in that no blowing occurs – it’s more of a sucking motion. A woman’s clitoris and the surrounding area can be licked, sucked and kissed, too.
DIGITAL STIMULATION: Sometimes it’s quicker and less messy to just do ‘handies’. Remember it’s her clit you’re looking for, not just the hole. You and your partner can also stimulate each other by rubbing and stroking your penis. Never apologise for lending a hand, either, sometimes you need a hand to cum and sometimes so does your partner. In fact while we’re on the subject … Sex doesn’t always finish with cumming or an orgasm. It’s nice if it does, but if you or your partner don’t cum it’s not the end of the world and it’s nothing to be ashamed of or worried about. This is another porn hangover – in porn everyone ALWAYS cums. In fact, female porn stars often start screaming with pleasure if a man breathes near them. In real life, not so much.
VAGINAL SEX: This is the one you need to do if you want to make a baby. You can’t just plug it in like an iPod and expect the magic to happen. The penis must be rubbed in and out until ejaculation. It’s the friction that does the trick. Your partner can also achieve orgasm through stimulation of the clitoris and arguably the G-spot. During sex, the vagina cleverly lubricates itself to make sexual intercourse easier for both of you.
Contrary to the sex-ed films you might have seen in school, there are lots of different ways of doing vaginal sex. Standing up, sat down, lying down, on the side, her on top, you on top, you on your head … You get the picture. TALK ABOUT IT. What position feels best for you? What position feels best for her? Despite what porn has
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