he was allowing us to still use the space.
Though my chapter in Texas was smaller, we were big on parliamentary procedures. We used Robertâs Rules of Order; this was the first thing we got trained in after we crossed. My past collegiate adviser believed in running an orderly meeting, but as I looked around the room at my line and Western Smithâs line, I didnât even see Western Smithâs collegiate adviser anywhere.
I sat there as the two lines started arguing about whether we should have a party and whether we should go around and help other chapters around with their lines. They were talking over each other. Then they starting saying some truly nasty stuff to each other.
Bea, in particular, said, âI know weâre suspended, but having a little party to raise a little money isnât going to kill anybody. The National President isnât going to know everything we do unless somebody in this room has a direct line to her snitches.â
âOh, so what are you trying to say?â Malloy said with angry veins busting from her skull. âBecause I want to do things right so we can get our chapter back in compliance and back on campus. Iâm not letting some of yâall pull down this chapter again.â
Hayden tried cutting in when her line sisters and Malloyâs line sisters were almost at blows. âEverybody just needs to settle down.â
However, sorors started screaming back and forth. The lines were ready to defend their point. Bea looked at me to join her side, knowing I had been hazed and may hold that against my line, and Malloy stared me downâshe knew I truly felt bad about all her line had been through and that now I had second thoughts about hazing being right.
Actually, I didnât want to be a part of either group. They obviously needed some order, so I raised my hand. Everybody just stared at me and then quieted down for me to speak, but the chair didnât recognize me.
I motioned up front to Hayden. âDo I have the floor, Madam President?â
âYeah, you may say something, Alyx.â
âWell, I know you all are wondering why I didnât just shout out what I had to say, but you all arenât working in order. The chair has to recognize you before you can speak. I believe Robertâs Rules of Order is an important book that keeps the feelings down and letâs everybody be heard respectfully. Then you vote on whatâs best for the body.â
âAnd how do you know all this?â Trisha asked impulsively, apparently having heard nothing Iâd said about protocol.
Sweetly as I could, I said, âI wish you hadnât just talked out of turn, but to answer your question, my chapter got trained in it. Thatâs one of the workshops we had to doâactually, we had to master it.â
âWhy is it even important?â Torian asked.
âWell, because you guys have been shouting at each other, and nobody is really hearing anyoneâs argument. As I sat here and listened, you all made good points, but if no side is really hearing what you have to say, itâs ineffective for the chapter. Robertâs Rules also says no one should speak on a motion more than twice.â
âMotion? Whatâs a motion?â Bea said.
âWell, thatâs just it. Weâve been discussing stuff, but thereâs been no formal way of placing that item out there for the chapter to officially discuss. To start this meeting, no kind of agenda was even adopted; thus, anything goes, and weâre wasting time.â
âYeah, because I wanted to talk about some things, but the President didnât put it on the agenda. So we just had to go with what she wanted to talk about,â Bea said.
âWell, thatâs because Iâm the only one that takes the time to do the agenda,â Hayden said. âIâm not saying it has to be this way.â
âAnd thatâs why you are supposed to jot down
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