exercise to go deep into your spiritual core to find what you truly need.
Picture your future self happy. What will feed your soul? What will nourish the need beyond the surface?
Think of your family – their strengths and weaknesses. Think about how you have evolved on this earth and the way you fit into your family’s structure. Again, allow your thoughts to touch on both the positive and negative relationships within your family.
Go over the friendships you have created in your lifetime. What has worked? What hasn’t? Take some time to meditate on each friend who has come into your life and made a difference. Sift through the traits each friendship has brought you.
THE LIST
Prepare your fire. Using a small fireproof bucket, or a campfire outside, ignite a flame. Gather two pieces of clean white paper. Clearing your mind, begin to make a specified list of all the qualities you need in a mate.
Look beyond the surface, beyond previous choices, and into your soul. Write from the heart without censoring – it is best that the list springs from the natural need in your soul rather than your rational mind. Clearly number each quality.
You may write as many or as few as is needed. If you trust your subconscious, you will know when to stop.
When you have finished, copy down the list on a second piece of paper.
Fold both pieces of paper into quadrants.
THE SPELL
Closing your eyes, offer a prayer of peace to Mother Earth. She will call the elements in the universe of fire, air, water and earth to bring what you need.
The suggested phrasing is listed below:
Dear Earth Mother, please bring forth these qualities on my list to complete my soul, to fulfill the need in my spirit, to nourish my emotional fulfillment. I offer my humbleness, my gratitude for all that I have, and my plea to the Universe.
Throw one piece of paper into the fire and watch it burn.
NOTE: There are additional items you may integrate with your list to bring forth specific traits. Use a small stick to symbolize dependability and stability. Find a family member with certain traits you admire, and use a lock of his or her hair. Add a treasured memento that invokes specific memories of love, happiness, or passion.
When it has completely vanished into ashes, meditate briefly on leaving the past behind and going toward the future with a whole heart.
Take the second piece of paper and place it under your mattress. As you sleep, your subconscious is freed, and the qualities you have listed will gain more strength in slumber.
NOTES
Use this page to write down all your thoughts on this process. Have you been afraid to find what you want in a soul-mate? Are you excited about the future or concerned you will be hurt? Do you feel silly or self-conscious taking the time to list all the qualities you need in a spouse?
There are no right or wrong answers –only your own unique individual journey.
SEDUCTION DINNER MENU
My seduction dinner menu is full of obvious as well as hidden aphrodisiac ingredients specifically formulated for a heightened sense of arousal. Start off with an appetizer of oysters and follow with a main course of salmon and asparagus. Look for recipes online, in cookbooks, or from a friend or family member and make this your own. Don’t forget to serve your guest a glass or red wine, which is also an aphrodisiac.
Follow your dinner up with the ultimate in sensual desserts, chocolate truffles with an added kick of fire to increase arousal. I’ve included a recipe from the Conte family that I’m going to share.
Impassioned Chocolate Truffles
Ingredients
10 ounces of semisweet chocolate
10 ounces of bittersweet chocolate
¾ cup heavy cream
½ teaspoon vanilla extract
¼ teaspoon cinnamon
¼ teaspoon chili powder
Pinch of cayenne pepper
Truffle Coating Options
Cocoa powder
Course sea salt
Directions
Grate or chop chocolate in small pieces
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