perfect mother. She
could, if she had wanted to, have married a John Kennedy, a Paul Newman, a
Prince Ranier, or a Rockefeller. Instead, she had fallen in love with Ross
Perot from Texarkana, Texas; five feet seven with a broken nose and nothing
in his pocket but hopes. All his life Perot had believed he was lucky. Now,
at the age of forty-eight, he could look back and see that the luckiest
thing that ever happened to him was Margot.
He was a happy man with a happy family, but a shadow had fallen over them
this Christmas. Perot's mother was dying. She had bone cancer. On Christmas
Eve she had fallen at home: it was not a heavy fall, but because the cancer
had weakened her bones, she had broken her hip and had to be rushed to
Baylor Hospital in downtown Dallas.
Perot's sister, Bette, spent that night with their mother, then, on
Christmas Day, Perot and Margot and the five children loaded the presents
into the station wagon and drove to the hospital. Grandmother was in such
good spirits that they all thoroughly enjoyed their day. However, she did
not want to see them the following day: she knew they had planned to go
skiing, and she insisted they go, despite her illness. Margot and the
children left for Vail on December 26, but Perot stayed behind.
ON WINGS OF EAGLES 47
There followed a battle of wills such as Perot had fought with his mother
in childhood. Lulu May Perot was only an inch or two, over five feet, and
slight, but she was no more fi-ail than a sergeant in the marines. She told
him he worked hard and he needed the holiday. He replied that he did not
want to leave her. Eventually the doctors intervened, and told him he was
doing her no good by staying against her will. The next day he joined his
family in Vail. She had won, as she always had when he was a boy.
One of their battles had been fought over a Boy Scout trip. There had been
flooding in Texarkana, and the Scouts were planning to camp near the
disaster area for three days and help with relief work. Young Perot was
determined to go, but his mother knew that he was too young-he would only
be a burden to the scoutmaster. Young Ross kept on and on at her, and she
just smiled sweetly and said no.
The time he won a concession from her: he was allowed to go and help pitch
tents the first day, but he had to come home in the evening. It wasn't much
of a compromise. But he was quite incapable of defying her. He just had to
imagine the scene when he would come home, and think of the words he would
use to tell her that he had disobeyed her---and he knew he cotdd not do it.
He was never spanked. He could not remember even being yelled at. She did
not rule him by fear. With her fair hair, blue eyes, and sweet nature, she
bound him-and his sister, Beft-in chains of love. She would just look you
in the eye and ten you what to do, and you simply could not bring yourself
to make her unhappy.
Even at the age of twenty-three, when Ross had been around the world and
come home again, she would say: "Who have you got a date with tonight?
Where are you going? What time will you be back?" And when he came home he
would always have to kiss her good night. But by this time their battles
were few and far between, for her principles were so deeply embedded in him
that they had become his own. She now ruled the family Ue a constitutional
monarch, wearing the trappings of power and legitimizing the real
decision-makers.
He had inherited more than her principles. He also had her iron will. He,
too, had a way of looking, people
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