I dated a European: âCan he take you out in those tight pants?â
When I dated a quiet guy: âDoes he talk?â
When I dated a short guy: âPick on someone your own size!â
But despite my doormanâs expertise in snap judgment, heâs surprisingly perceptive when it comes to the heavy stuff. When my last long-term relationship started to sour, he noticed it almost before I did.
âYou all right? You donât seem happy. Make sure he makes you happy.â
The morning after we broke up, when my eyes were puffy from crying, he glanced at me and shook his head. âSay the word, Princess, Iâll kick his ass.â
It made me laugh.
Because whether I agree with him all the time or not, itâs nice to know that someone has your back.
My mom and my doorman are best buds, because she gets the warm, funny version of him that I see every day, and theyâre both no-nonsense when it comes to keeping me safe. So I often relay his one-liners to her over the phone.
When she came to visit shortly after my breakup, she had a private chat with him.
âYou know,â my mom said, leaning over the front desk, âI didnât think that last boyfriend was right for her, either.â
She told me he replied only, âIâm sorry, maâam. I donât comment on the personal lives of our tenants.â
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Got Limes?
Lisa
You may have seen the news story that one of the major big-box stores has applied for a liquor license, which would allow consumption-on-premises.
In other words, you could drink while you shop.
Yay!
Happy days are here again!
Reportedly, the store is doing this because itâs expanding its grocery and food items, but I donât care why.
Bottomâs up!
I already love shopping in big-box stores.
Why?
Everything is BIG!
If you need to buy laundry detergent, the smallest bottle is 187 ounces.
And thatâs concentrated, so itâs the equivalent of an entire ocean of laundry detergent.
Thatâs why I buy All laundry detergent.
Because itâs ALL.
In fact, you will die before you run out of laundry detergent, and you can bequeath it to your children. So after you have given your all, you can give them your All.
If you buy a can of coffee, it will be shrink-wrapped with forty-seven hundred other cans of coffee. Youâll have more caffeine than youâll ever need and you can share some with your neighbors, so your entire block will be highly productive.
Or start a war.
I also buy multicolored gummy vitamins in a big-box store, and I now have 32,029,348 vitamins. If I took them all, I would gain a superpower.
Or grow a third breast covered with rainbows.
Which might be the same thing.
But you get the idea, the bottom line in big-box stores is that everything is big, plentiful, excessive, and way out of proportion.
Ainât it great?
The shopping carts are humongous, too, perfectly in scale with the massive stores, so that between the immensity of the space, the gargantuan shopping carts, and the over-the-top quantity of each item, when you step inside the store, youâre a Lilliputian stepped into Brobdingnag, which is the land where the giants lived in Gulliverâs Travels .
You probably knew that.
But I had to look it up.
Impressed?
Anyway itâs a good analogy, because thatâs pretty much exactly how I feel when Iâm pushing around one of those big carts, and like you, I go into the big-box store for one item and leave with several hundred.
In fact, I have been known to leave the store with two full carts, which shows you that Lilliputians love to shop.
Now that big-box stores will allow you to drink while you shop, Iâm imagining myself walking those glistening, extrawide aisles behind my cart-as-big-as-a-house, a Lilliputian sipping Lambrusco.
I donât have that many inhibitions to start with, and for me, liquor only makes things worse.
Or better.
I buy too much in the
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