was born. It was late March, which is not spring in New Hampshire. I remember driving my motorcycle home from the hospital. (A friend had driven Shyla to the hospital, because Iâd been in classâin Tom Williamsâs Creative Writing class.) I remember watching out for the patches of ice and snow that were still evident on the roads; I drove home very slowly, put the motorcycle in the garage, and never drove it againâI would sell it that summer. It was a 750cc Royal Enfield, black and chrome, with a customized tomato-red gas tank the shape of a teardropâI would never miss it. I was a father; fathers didnât drive motorcycles.
The night Colin was born, George Bennett died in the same hospital; I have called George my first âcritic and encouragerââhe was my first
reader.
I remember going back and forth in the hospital between Shyla and Colin and George. During the years Iâd grown up in Exeter, especially before I attended the academy, Georgeâs son had been my best friend. (I would dedicate my first novel
in memory of
George, and to his widow and son.)
George Bennett took me to my first Ingmar Bergman film; it would have been 1958 or â59 when I saw
The Seventh Seal
âthe movie was almost new (it was released in the U.S. in â57). Itâs not psychologically complicated why, when Death came for George, I saw Death as that relentless chess player in the black robe (Bengt Ekerot) who defeats the Knight (Max von Sydow) and claims the lives of the Knightâs wife and the Knightâs squire, too.
I have since read that
The Seventh Seal
is a âmedieval fantasy,â and this I donât understand at all . . . well, âmedieval,â maybe, although most of Bergmanâs work is timeless to me. But
The Seventh Seal
is no âfantasy.â That Death takes the Knight and allows the young family to live . . . well, that was how it happened to me, too. At the moment my son Colin was born, George was gone.
In 1982, when Ingmar Bergman retired as a filmmakerâwith
Fanny and Alexander
, the stunning memoir of his childhoodâI felt another loss. Bergman was the only major novelist making movies. My interest in the movies, which was never great, has grown fainter since his retirement. I hope that Mr. Bergman is happy in the theater (where he continues to direct), although I have difficulty seeing him thereâmy interest in the theater was never great either.
Not Even A Zebra
Upon my return from Europe, Ted Seabrooke had made me feel welcome in the Exeter wrestling room, but something had changed in me; I was so happy to be wrestling again I didnât care how I compared to the competitionâI didnât enter a single tournament. I worked out, hard, every day; I coached the kids at ExeterâI thought more about
their
wrestling than I did about mineâand I became certified as a referee. (Iâd always disliked referees until I became one.)
That winter of â65, there was an additional wrestling coach in the Exeter roomâa retired Air Force lieutenant colonel, Cliff Gallagher. Cliff was the famous Ed Gallagherâs brother. (Between 1928 and 1940, E. C. Gallagher coached Oklahoma State to 11 national team titles.) Born in Kansas, Cliff had wrestled at Oklahoma A & Mâhe was never beaten in a wrestling matchâand heâd played football at Kansas State (he was a All-American halfback). Cliff had once held the world record in the 50-yard low hurdles, too, and heâd received a doctorate from Kansas State in 1921âin veterinary medicine, although heâd never been a practicing veterinarian. Cliff Gallagher was also a certified referee. We frequently refereed tournaments together.
As a wrestling coach, Cliff was a little dangerous; he showed the Exeter boys a great number of holds that had been illegal for many yearsâthe key-lock, the Japanese wrist-lock, various choke-holds and other holds that dated
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